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'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erin_obscure - Jan 21, 2012 8:29:15 pm PST #6077 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Ok, need recommendations for swimsuit purchasing. I'm going to Saint Martin's next month (super amazing 5 day trip being funded by my former stepmother and her new husband, sharing a room and providing chaperone service for the 15 year old sister) and I'm keen on getting a flattering, beach-worthy suit. Normally i'm fine with the $20 costco speedos (great for lap swimming but i shudder whenever i catch a glimpse of myself in a mirror) but just this once i'd like something a little more....fun. I have a 2 piece from sunnin' in the backyard and the bottom is serviceable, but the string bikini top is RIGHT OUT for walking in public. Was thinking about a tankini top and hit all the local places with no luck. I kinda like this but am concerned that it won't be supportive enough for my bosom. (You'd think a 36C wouldn't need super amazing engineering, but apparently it does unless if i want to keep my upper half above my lowest rib, and my vanity absolutely does.)

I neglected to bookmark the links posted here last time this discussion came around....so any referrals are super welcome and i'll mark 'em this time!


Strix - Jan 21, 2012 10:07:13 pm PST #6078 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Trust me. Eff the soft cups and a shelf bra; you want an underwire.


erin_obscure - Jan 21, 2012 10:14:20 pm PST #6079 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Oh hells yeah i want underwire! I put up with soft cups and shelf bras for lapswim suits, but i also get those a size small so they are extra tight for adequate support. Would be nice to have a beach suit that gives enough structured support that i can wear the right size and not bulge out the edges!


Hil R. - Jan 22, 2012 12:16:50 am PST #6080 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I usually buy bathing suits from figleaves.com. They're expensive, but worth it.


erin_obscure - Jan 22, 2012 1:52:26 am PST #6081 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Holy mole, Hil, those prices are actually pretty fantastic! Way cheaper than the Land End/LL Bean stuff i've been looking at. Heck, their Speedos are cheaper than any but outlet stores (at least around here.) Woot, i know where i'm getting my next lap swimming suit!


askye - Jan 22, 2012 3:27:14 am PST #6082 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

My last bathing suit was a tankini deal that I got at Target.

I feel like crap and I didn't sleep well, and I can't understand why because I took half an Ambien.

Then it hit me this morning .. I didn't actually take my Seroquel last night. It is going to be a very long day today.


Hil R. - Jan 22, 2012 3:58:17 am PST #6083 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I've never bought Speedos there. I usually get the tankinis where they sell the tops and bottoms separately, with the tops sized by bra size.


smonster - Jan 22, 2012 4:49:43 am PST #6084 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I'll write up the ball later, but here's a picture. As I said on fb, we look like extras from the final scene of Footloose. Which I think is AWESOME. [link]


sj - Jan 22, 2012 5:12:40 am PST #6085 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

smonster, great picture!

We're heading out with our realtor to look at several houses today. Wish me house hunting~ma and sanity~ma. Although the latter might be a lost cause.


Calli - Jan 22, 2012 5:18:09 am PST #6086 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Nicely coordinated outfits, smonster!