I miss Oz. He'd get it. He wouldn't say anything, but he'd get it.

Xander ,'Get It Done'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Aug 11, 2026 1:23:34 pm PDT #13531 of 13619
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Burrito was excellent and will be at least two meals. Well worth it.

And the people organizing our reunion just published that it'll be $200 for tailgating at the homecoming football game and then a gala on Saturday including a souvenir t-shirt and what looks like a coffee cup. Which seems pretty reasonable and might be fun except I would also have to get there and find a hotel and take time off from work and none of that sounds fun. Well, taking time off from work actually always sounds like a good idea and I'll have vacation time accrued by then (end of October ish). Hm.


-t - Aug 11, 2026 1:25:55 pm PDT #13532 of 13619
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Probably renting a car, too, I doubt getting around without one has gotten any better


Steph L. - Aug 11, 2026 1:32:45 pm PDT #13533 of 13619
That which does not kill you should RUN

It's shrimp and al pastor in a spinach tortilla.

That sounds super tasty!


askye - Aug 11, 2026 1:46:40 pm PDT #13534 of 13619
Thrive to spite them

I got my eyes examined. only minor improvements. My left eye continues to be a lazy bastard that doesn't want to focus.

Tried on frames and had M take pictures and some how they are all completely unflattering. I was going to post them on FB but now I'm not. You also can't really tell the variations in the glasses for some reason.

I was very drawn to these [link] but they are too big for my face (the earpiece didn't fit very well behind my ears) and I don't really like the color but those were the ones I kept trying on.

Then I think these were ones I liked-- the clear bottoms meant it didn't look so heavy on my face [link]

and M liked these [link]

and there were a pair that had red half frames that I kind of liked but I don't see a picture , i really wanted to see if they had another color. Also if those green ones had been in a different shade of green or blue or purple I would have had a hard time saying no to them. I don't know why I was just drawn to them.


-t - Aug 11, 2026 1:53:29 pm PDT #13535 of 13619
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, read it wrong, it's $125, the $200 is for an additional guest to everything. Not that that makes a big difference, the actual thing would be the least expensive part of the trip but it feels different.

Looking into how impractical taking the train would be. Pretty darn impractical but maybe not prohibitively so?


-t - Aug 11, 2026 3:25:02 pm PDT #13536 of 13619
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

No, train would be silly, none actually stop in Baton Rouge (something I think about whenever I listen to Me and Bobby McGee) and any possible route would take way longer than I'd actually be there for the reunion. Alas.

But flying+car rental+hotel isn't too bad. I mean, a lot to drop in one weekend in the normal way of thengs but it's kind of a big event. OTOH, I'm trying to be frugal.

Well, more than two months from now, I can think about it some more.


dcp - Aug 11, 2026 4:32:03 pm PDT #13537 of 13619
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Baton Rouge...Me and Bobby McGee

I always figured, since they were "busted flat," that they were planning to hop a freight train.

On the other hand, KCS ran the Southern Belle between Kansas City and New Orleans, and it stopped at their station in Baton Rouge. Last run was November 1, 1969, so just about the time the song was written.


-t - Aug 11, 2026 4:42:40 pm PDT #13538 of 13619
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Nice! Now I can think about that every time! Thanks!

Not only am I in neither Iceland nor Spain for tomorrow's eclipse, I'll be on a Zoom call so I can't even watch online. I'll have a window open just in case I get an opportunity but I'm hosting the call so probably not. Glad I at least know several people who are out there to experience it!


erikaj - Aug 11, 2026 5:31:34 pm PDT #13539 of 13619
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

Could be. Or hitchiking, which was still a thing you could think about without considering being chopped into little pieces in the sixties.


dcp - Aug 11, 2026 6:35:23 pm PDT #13540 of 13619
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Or hitchiking

"Bobby thumbed a diesel down, just before it rained...."