Love and condolences to Trudy and her family. Thanks, Cass for letting us know.
And belated Birthday wishes to P. Tickybox.
...because God knows you need some satisfaction in life besides shagging Captain Cardboard! And I never really liked you anyway. And you have stupid hair!
Spike ,'Selfless'
Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Beverly - Apr 14, 2026 3:02:23 pm PDT #12319 of 12473
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
Cass - Apr 14, 2026 3:49:20 pm PDT #12320 of 12473
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Thanks for passing the word, Cass. Please give Trudy my condolences and love when you talk with her next.
Absolutely. Her family is all there together.
Ticky being 21 is unpossible. But she's brilliant so I'm glad she is all grown now.
Pix - Apr 14, 2026 9:39:20 pm PDT #12321 of 12473
The status is NOT quo.
Sending to much love to Trudy and her family. I know we say it over and over, but it’s still true: It’s always sudden.
I am in total denial that Tickybox could be 21.
JenP - Apr 15, 2026 5:47:33 am PDT #12322 of 12473
Deepest condolences to you, Trudy, and your family. Sending love.
Steph L. - Apr 15, 2026 6:02:44 am PDT #12323 of 12473
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Trudy, I'm so sorry. Love to you and your family.
askye - Apr 15, 2026 9:38:16 am PDT #12324 of 12473
Thrive to spite them
(((Trudy))) so much love to you and your family.
askye - Apr 15, 2026 9:44:20 am PDT #12325 of 12473
Thrive to spite them
I got a new phone. My previous one kept forgetting it had a sim card and I would have to restart my phone. Which was annoying especially when I didn't realize for several hours and missed texts.
Yesterday I had to restart it 4 times just so it would recognize and I went to get a new one. I wasn't sure what I would get but I figured it would be a major step down. BUT I didn't have much balance left and I paid it off and there was a sale so I got a Samsung S25 Ultra for almost nothing .
Now I have to get used to Samsung again. I was frustrated with the Pixel for several reasons but the most recent update made a change to the flashlight that means you couldn't just turn it on and off by touching thr icon. It now gave the option for Done that closed the drop down but left it open or Off. Technically not an extra step but it was inconvenient.
I don't plan on changing phones for a long time after this
lisah - Apr 15, 2026 12:51:44 pm PDT #12326 of 12473
Punishingly Intricate
I’m so sorry for your loss, Trudy
P.M. Marc - Apr 15, 2026 1:19:54 pm PDT #12327 of 12473
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Oh, Trudy. I wish you weren't in the crappiest club with me. And, yeah. Always sudden.
Sheryl - Apr 15, 2026 4:35:11 pm PDT #12328 of 12473
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
Timelies all!
I'm sorry for your loss, Trudy.
My mom would have turned 86 yesterday, so I understand.