I wish we could have sane leaders.
Echoing back. This is shitty for everyone (expect for dictators and fascists and arms dealers, I guess).
I'm at friends' place. They relocated to Spain several months ago. They have a safe space and I've used it in the past (August 2024 and June 2025). Trying to rest when I can and plan when I'm awake and feel like I have the brain cells for planning. Also enjoying social media's gallows humor and not enjoying the sounds of war.
I'll update here when I can. ~ma to you as well. It's a different kind of stress to experience it from afar, but it's still stressful. All in all, I am lucky to have a good place to evacuate to.