It's true, Hec. We've been dancing around saying so, because we all like him, but it's undeniable that we have gotten much more cohesive and productive in the last week. I actually texted PB tonight - trying to hook him up with an unpaid art thing, maybe it could lead somewhere, who knows. He's been texting my boss repeatedly asking why he was fired. Just. Doesn't. Get it. Truly a mind-boggling lack of self-awareness. I told him I'd meet up if he wanted to discuss his strengths and a path forward, but he doesn't seem to be interested in that.

Anyway. Thanks to you all for your support and listening ears/eyes, and good counsel through that whole business.

I told him I'd meet up if he wanted to discuss his strengths and a path forward, but he doesn't seem to be interested in that.

Let it go, luv. You've done all you can and more than you needed to do.

Debet, I don't think you're overreacting at all. It makes sense that you would want to talk to a doctor and get some answers. I hope you get what you need. Also, tons of ~ma for your mother.

Debet -- lots of ma~~ and peace of mind . The one thing I learned from the 60 mile walk - early detection almost always means cure. so be vigilant . That is the best you can do for yourself ( and us !)

peace to you

Debet, I don't think you're overreacting, cancer is stressful and scary no matter what type it is.

Fuck cancer indeed. I've certainly spent enough time grappling with the idea of my own mortality to think you're overreacting. If I can do anything to be supportive Debet, let me know.

Thanks, everyone. If someone could make my brain do useful things, like learn about disorders of the hand, that would be awesome. Right now, not so much.

We are staying in a little cottage in Lincolnshire for the weekend. Deep in the countryside. Here to catch up on work, but I want to go for a drive and see fields and trees soon.

DebetEsse, wishing your mother excellent treatment and a speedy recovery. And Fuck Cancer. And you're not overreacting.

I suck so much at the "what is wrong with you?" question from children. I hate hate hate it. You'd think I'd be used to it, considering how many times I've had to deal with it, but nope, still sucks.

Sorry to hear about silly kids. Though, I have to say, I prefer that question from children than adults. Everyone from professors in my department to people in my church (who haven't asked me my name yet) think it's acceptable to ask. I haven't come up with a witty answer yet.

I believe acceptable answer is "what is wrong with your face?"

That does hit about the same level of maturity.