Hauser: You really think you can solve the problem? Come into Wolfram & Hart and make everything right? Turn night into glorious day? You pathetic little fairy. Angel: I'm not little.

'Just Rewards (2)'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sean K - May 17, 2009 8:30:02 am PDT #9995 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

The thing is, as my therapist used to tell me, it only takes one You just have to keep trying until you meet that one who DOESN'T fizzle. There wlll be a lot who will fizzle and it will hurt every time, but all that means is that they are not right for you. It's not a judgment on you at all.

Thank's, Scrappy. Didn't mean to edit myself out on you, sorry. It's good advice, worth preserving. And reading aloud to myself every day.


beth b - May 17, 2009 8:39:06 am PDT #9996 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Does it help to know that two friends of mine just got married. He's 60 she is slightly older than that . She had a bad marriage and raised 2.5 kids on her own ( point 5 is a girl that she becam a mother to when the girl was in her late teens) He was married, but living a lonely separate life. ( Remember loneliness is not just for singles). He met B after he had left his wife After at least 10 years of being alone. And in a place where he could do nothing about it.


Sean K - May 17, 2009 8:48:28 am PDT #9997 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Remember loneliness is not just for singles

This one I know all too well. At least part of my current blues stems from having been lonely for quite a bit longer than I've actually been single.


Laga - May 17, 2009 8:51:04 am PDT #9998 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Congraduations Aimee!

Hippo Birdies Vortex!


erikaj - May 17, 2009 8:52:34 am PDT #9999 of 30000
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

So sorry, bunky. I'm doing that shit right now AIF...well, awful, really.


javachik - May 17, 2009 9:02:43 am PDT #10000 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Happy Birthday, Vortex!

And Aimee, I adore that super happy picture of you! You go girl!


Volans - May 17, 2009 9:10:01 am PDT #10001 of 30000
move out and draw fire

Happy birthday Vortex!

Congrats Aims!

Rachel Alexandra has a great name. That's all I got.

I have no idea how people meet people to date. All the potential datables I've met were via work or gaming. And while you game, Sean, the odds of finding a girl via that are not so good (and as they say, the goods are odd.)


Laga - May 17, 2009 9:13:22 am PDT #10002 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I was shocked the other day to realize the ratio of girls to boys in my gaming group is 1:1. I used to always be the only girl.


Sean K - May 17, 2009 9:24:00 am PDT #10003 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

And while you game, Sean, the odds of finding a girl via that are not so good (and as they say, the goods are odd.)

Odd isn't necessarily a deal-breaker for me (depending on the specifics of "odd," of course).

And no, even though Laga is right that the ratio of boys to girls in gaming circles is equalizing a bit, I'm not going to meet anyone that way.


Ginger - May 17, 2009 9:26:55 am PDT #10004 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

But I'm stressing hard about money, and feeling blue and lonely the last few days. I don't like being single. I don't know where to go to meet new people, and have no prospects among the people I do know, and at a stone's throw from 40, the odds are pretty heavily stacked against me.

I'll match you and raise you a decade and working at home. It's just gotten so easy to stay a complete hermit who hardly communicates with anyone but the dog.

Congratulations, Aims!

Happy birthday to the magnificent Vortex!