I just think you're freakin' out 'cause you have to fight someone prettier than you.

Dawn ,'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sean K - May 17, 2009 8:07:24 am PDT #9992 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Aw, Barb. That's sweet. Thanks.

omnis, my brother. You know what stings the worst? When I see ugly dickholes with women who deserve better. Your crutches have nothing to do with the injustice of you being single.


Sean K - May 17, 2009 8:20:17 am PDT #9993 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Okay, shutting up now.


Scrappy - May 17, 2009 8:24:19 am PDT #9994 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I know. The thing is, as my therapist used to tell me, it only takes one You just have to keep trying until you meet that one who DOESN'T fizzle. There wlll be a lot who will fizzle and it will hurt every time, but all that means is that they are not right for you. It's not a judgment on you at all.


Sean K - May 17, 2009 8:30:02 am PDT #9995 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

The thing is, as my therapist used to tell me, it only takes one You just have to keep trying until you meet that one who DOESN'T fizzle. There wlll be a lot who will fizzle and it will hurt every time, but all that means is that they are not right for you. It's not a judgment on you at all.

Thank's, Scrappy. Didn't mean to edit myself out on you, sorry. It's good advice, worth preserving. And reading aloud to myself every day.


beth b - May 17, 2009 8:39:06 am PDT #9996 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Does it help to know that two friends of mine just got married. He's 60 she is slightly older than that . She had a bad marriage and raised 2.5 kids on her own ( point 5 is a girl that she becam a mother to when the girl was in her late teens) He was married, but living a lonely separate life. ( Remember loneliness is not just for singles). He met B after he had left his wife After at least 10 years of being alone. And in a place where he could do nothing about it.


Sean K - May 17, 2009 8:48:28 am PDT #9997 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Remember loneliness is not just for singles

This one I know all too well. At least part of my current blues stems from having been lonely for quite a bit longer than I've actually been single.


Laga - May 17, 2009 8:51:04 am PDT #9998 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Congraduations Aimee!

Hippo Birdies Vortex!


erikaj - May 17, 2009 8:52:34 am PDT #9999 of 30000
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

So sorry, bunky. I'm doing that shit right now AIF...well, awful, really.


javachik - May 17, 2009 9:02:43 am PDT #10000 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Happy Birthday, Vortex!

And Aimee, I adore that super happy picture of you! You go girl!


Volans - May 17, 2009 9:10:01 am PDT #10001 of 30000
move out and draw fire

Happy birthday Vortex!

Congrats Aims!

Rachel Alexandra has a great name. That's all I got.

I have no idea how people meet people to date. All the potential datables I've met were via work or gaming. And while you game, Sean, the odds of finding a girl via that are not so good (and as they say, the goods are odd.)