You'll fight, and you'll shag, and you'll hate each other till it makes you quiver, but you'll never be friends.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sparky1 - May 17, 2009 2:51:11 am PDT #9976 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

((Sean))

Congratulations, Aims!

Happy Birthday, Vortex!


WindSparrow - May 17, 2009 3:30:34 am PDT #9977 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Vortex, happy birthday, gorgeous!


Barb - May 17, 2009 4:27:19 am PDT #9978 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

{{{Sean}}}

Happy Birthday, Vortex!

YAY, AIMS!!


hippocampus - May 17, 2009 5:56:46 am PDT #9979 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

Happy Birthday Vortex!!

Hooray Aims! Awesome!

{{sean}}


Laura - May 17, 2009 6:07:41 am PDT #9980 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Happy Birthday to Vortex!

Woo Hoo for Aims!

{{Sean}} I've pretty much been in a married state for 37 years. So many people that I love and know would be brilliant mates for some lucky person are single. It is something I find an incomprehensible mystery. Seriously, I just don't understand.


-t - May 17, 2009 6:33:37 am PDT #9981 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Happy birthday, Vortex!

Happy graduation day, Aims!


NoiseDesign - May 17, 2009 7:05:03 am PDT #9982 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

Happy Birthday Vortex.

Guess where I am? Yes that is right it is LAX.


DavidS - May 17, 2009 7:23:26 am PDT #9983 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Happy birthday, Vortex!

Where's Ple and Sumi?

Filly wins the Preakness! Tell me more about this Rachel Alexandra.


Sean K - May 17, 2009 7:35:23 am PDT #9984 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

{{Sean}} I've pretty much been in a married state for 37 years. So many people that I love and know would be brilliant mates for some lucky person are single. It is something I find an incomprehensible mystery. Seriously, I just don't understand.

It's been hitting me pretty hard lately.

With the exception of S, I've never had any kind of long term relationship, and have spent most of my adult life single. I think I'm a pretty good catch, and that I have a lot to offer, but for the life of me I can't find an available woman who agrees with that.

I mean, if it was something other than "I just don't think about you that way," or something, I could fix that. But there's nothing I can do about the vagaries of attraction.

I've worked pretty hard these last few years at becoming successful, I don't terrify small children with appearance or anything.

And yet, all the women I know just want to be friends.

Most of my friends are in long term, committed relationships. ALL of my old Michigan friends are paired up (and in most cases, sprogged).

It's not so stressful and distracting that it's crippling my ability to function, like the misery I was going through with S did, but it leaves me feeling lonely and sad pretty much all the time.

I guess I just feel like I've gotten to a point in my life where most things I do feel a little hollow without somebody there to share it with.

But nothing's going to happen to change any of that, and I've got it better than most, so maybe I just need to shut the fuck up and deal.


Polter-Cow - May 17, 2009 7:37:15 am PDT #9985 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

{{{Sean}}} I know how you feel, man.