Billytea, I think you've hit upon one of the great cosmic truths. Parenting is a lot like a Kobayashi Maru test. But, I have infinite faith in the Kirk-ness of you.

This may be the most perfect encouragement I've ever wished I had come up with myself.

Bartleby news: Well...it's a mixed bag.

The 'teeny' portion of eyelid they told me would be removed turned out to be much bigger than expected. We won't get the biopsy for a week but nobody made any noises like I should be worried. He looks a bit like Quasimodo.

The teeth cleaning turned into a much bigger deal as it came to light that the hospital that did his last extraction left a root in his jaw. I haven't looked up yet how long ago that was, but I'm thanking all the gods that the little guy didn't go septic as could easily have happened. Thank GOD I casually requested xrays to ensure he didn't have an abscess.

The poor wee beastie cried and cried and cried for. hours. after we got home. He'd had morphine and I ultimately gave him Rimadyl, but, oy. He was miserable with the sewn up eye on the right and swollen jaw on the left. No comfortable place to lay his aching head.

And the 'comfy cone' which is made of therma-rest-like material and ostensibly better than the hard plastic was making him miserable.

For my part, I was great in the waiting room for the first 6 hours. Reading and doing loads of free doggy lama coaching...which was fun. The last hour wasn't so good and, due to lack of sleep, the frustration of not being able to help him and the crying, I was pretty miserable myself last night.

We did sleep and that has turned out to be good/bad news. He seems so much better but, as a result, will NOT tolerate the cone. I have visions of one good swipe of the paw leading to yet another thousand dollars (not a misprint) worth of procedures.

I've taken it off and he's asleep in his soft bed next to me, but I won't be able to leave him, or pretty much take my eyes off of him for a couple of days. Those eyelid stitches a so delicate.

Sigh.

Thanks for the good thoughts. It really is amazing how helpful the ~ma is.

Why does grocery shopping online take nearly as long as actually going to the supermarket? Note to self: the fate of the world does not rest on your choice of a brand of stir-in sauce for chicken. Is good thing I have yesterday's episode of 'Ashes to Ashes' to watch while I'm dithering.

Shir, library is good. Mine is full of chatty people pretending they're doing 'group work' and actually discussing what they're going to wear to the club night at the students' union, though. Not ideal work conditions. I make progress with paper too. Also starting on next one. I'm an 'I will rule the world with my awesome grades that will get me PhD funding' mood. Let's see if that lasts past 3 o'clock.

Add-it edit: bonny fides, here's to Bartleby's continued recovery. Poor thing.

Is good thing I have yesterday's episode of 'Ashes to Ashes' to watch while I'm dithering.

So. Jealous.

Don't know when they're going to start showing the new eps here. I thought it was going to be two weeks after they were aired in the UK, but no such luck so far.

Don't know when they're going to start showing the new eps here. I thought it was going to be two weeks after they were aired in the UK, but no such luck so far.

Hope you get it soon. It is very watchable. It's not 'Life on Mars', but it it's still good TV. Episode 5 - next week's - is generating spoiler buzz that I refuse to read, but which excites me by its very existence. I still don't know whether TV is more fun or less fun since I stopped being a big spoiler-whore. It's a toss-up.

Billytea, I think you've hit upon one of the great cosmic truths. Parenting is a lot like a Kobayashi Maru test. But, I have infinite faith in the Kirk-ness of you.

Hee. As I recall, Kirk passed the test by hacking into the computer program and rewriting it. I suppose this means I should genetically engineer my kid.

I've taken it off and he's asleep in his soft bed next to me, but I won't be able to leave him, or pretty much take my eyes off of him for a couple of days. Those eyelid stitches a so delicate.

Oh my goodness. That sounds exhausting.

It's not 'Life on Mars', but it it's still good TV.

It was a bit uneven, but the S1 finale was tremendous. The big reveal was rather chilling.

And I'm a whackjob-- I liked both iterations of LOM especially after the American one quit paralleling the UK episodes so closely. The last ten minutes of the last American episode blew chunks but overall, it was entertaining, compared to what we get on TV over here.

I liked both iterations of LOM especially after the American one quit paralleling the UK episodes so closely.

I haven't seen the US version, but I should - the trailer made it look rather fun. I'd be interested to see where they took the story.

Hee. As I recall, Kirk passed the test by hacking into the computer program and rewriting it.

This is what I'm saying.

I suppose this means I should genetically engineer my kid.

But not so much this.

I trust though, that you will think outside the diaper.

I suppose this means I should genetically engineer my kid.

If you decide to subcontract this, try to get the one that did Bashir and not the one who did Khan.

Much doggy~ma and peace~ma for both you and Bartleby, bonny.

Shir, I'm sorry you are in such a tough situation with your best friend. It really seems off to me that a good friend cannot accept "I do not want to talk right now" as an answer.