Oh, Nora. You WILL get there, but I am so sorry that the road has kicked up a major pain-in-the-ass block.
'Why We Fight'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
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Can you have Tom do that for you?
I agree with sj. I'm so sorry, Nora. That's just devastating. And of course it matters. Hugs and love and support are yours for the asking. And even if you don't ask.
Jilli. Please tell me everything is ok in Jilli land: [link]
Jilli. Please tell me everything is ok in Jilli land:
Plei, too.
Oh, Nora, I'm so sorry. And, yes, have Tom do it. That's what he's there for (among his many, many other goodnesses). It's a shitty little task that you shouldn't have to face, a burden he can relieve you of.
You will graduate, it's just a slightly different path. Seriously, one of the graduate students working for us seems to fail comps every year, and they've all gone on to pass and get jobs and learn the secret librarian handshake.
Sparky is wise (as per usual) and the voice of experience. But, God, how it sucks right now. I'm hugging you to bits long distance right this second.
Nora, I'm so very sorry.
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And yay Erin, and keepthejob~ma to Jilli and Plei.
Oh, Nora. Let me know if there's anything I can do. I'm confident it's just a temporary setback, but I know it's a kick in the gut now.
Nora, that's so rough for you. Please be gentle with yourself.
And yay Erin, and keepthejob~ma to Jilli and Plei.
What she said.
Oh, Nora, I'm so sorry.
Keeping my fingers crossed for Jilli and Plei.
To go upthread a bit:
The really interesting part of the morning came when I was on my way to the dealer and driving through a school zone near my house-- woman behind me was putting on mascara, while driving, through the school zone. Mind-boggling what some people think is okay to do while driving.
Over the weekend, a woman was painting her fingernails while driving, failed to break, and killed a motorcyclist when she was thrown off her bike.