Can you have Tom do that for you?
I agree with sj. I'm so sorry, Nora. That's just devastating. And of course it matters. Hugs and love and support are yours for the asking. And even if you don't ask.
But that's just my point! You she obeys! She obeys you! There's obeying going on right under my nose!
Wash ,'War Stories'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Pix - May 05, 2009 8:20:30 am PDT #8820 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.
omnis_audis - May 05, 2009 8:31:21 am PDT #8821 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Jilli. Please tell me everything is ok in Jilli land: [link]
Steph L. - May 05, 2009 8:36:46 am PDT #8822 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Jilli. Please tell me everything is ok in Jilli land:
Plei, too.
JZ - May 05, 2009 8:37:04 am PDT #8823 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
Oh, Nora, I'm so sorry. And, yes, have Tom do it. That's what he's there for (among his many, many other goodnesses). It's a shitty little task that you shouldn't have to face, a burden he can relieve you of.
You will graduate, it's just a slightly different path. Seriously, one of the graduate students working for us seems to fail comps every year, and they've all gone on to pass and get jobs and learn the secret librarian handshake.
Sparky is wise (as per usual) and the voice of experience. But, God, how it sucks right now. I'm hugging you to bits long distance right this second.
Shir - May 05, 2009 8:39:58 am PDT #8824 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Nora, I'm so very sorry.
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And yay Erin, and keepthejob~ma to Jilli and Plei.
Ginger - May 05, 2009 8:45:17 am PDT #8825 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Oh, Nora. Let me know if there's anything I can do. I'm confident it's just a temporary setback, but I know it's a kick in the gut now.
WindSparrow - May 05, 2009 8:47:22 am PDT #8826 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Nora, that's so rough for you. Please be gentle with yourself.
And yay Erin, and keepthejob~ma to Jilli and Plei.
What she said.
Kathy A - May 05, 2009 8:50:49 am PDT #8827 of 30000
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil
Oh, Nora, I'm so sorry.
Keeping my fingers crossed for Jilli and Plei.
Kathy A - May 05, 2009 8:53:22 am PDT #8828 of 30000
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil
To go upthread a bit:
The really interesting part of the morning came when I was on my way to the dealer and driving through a school zone near my house-- woman behind me was putting on mascara, while driving, through the school zone. Mind-boggling what some people think is okay to do while driving.
Over the weekend, a woman was painting her fingernails while driving, failed to break, and killed a motorcyclist when she was thrown off her bike.
Polter-Cow - May 05, 2009 9:03:59 am PDT #8829 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
The hell?? That's insane.