I may have power at home. yay!
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
That would really be the lamest super hero ever, huh?
You come over here, Lex Luthor! I'll kick your ass all over my living room! Maybe!
yay -- electricity!
I'm in favor of it. Especially in my house.
Billytea - a late boo for the layoff and a yay for babytea and some paternity leave.
Plei, DH Job~ma in spades. Erin job~ma too.
That is all.
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I am a craxy magnet.
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ok that is really all.
Job~ma for PMM's DH and for Epic, too. And continued ~ma for billytea (plus coming safely~ma for babytea).
I just went for a walk with the Alpine walking sticks. Probably not very helpful to keep up a steady stream of body-hate while doing so. But I still don't know how to shut it off. I read the Fat Acceptance stuff... and it's not taking. I don't know how to force myself to accept it any better than I know how to force diet and exercise to actually make me skinny.
ma~~~ billytea.
WindSparrow -- I'm not sure that acceptance is the place to start. It takes baby steps to get there.
I had a bunch written here that talked about me, but I think it might not help. Basically , find something small to hang onto. I've got three or four things that work at different times. I still have bad days -- but they get less and less in the way of taking care of my self.
It breaks my heart that some of the most beautiful women I know don't ever get to feel as beautiful as they truly are.
And yes, Windsparrow, you're one of them.
I know it's still the same old bleat from me.
Y'know what's good? Looking at pictures of kittens. That always helps.
{{{beth}}} {{{java}}}
Probably not very helpful to keep up a steady stream of body-hate while doing so. But I still don't know how to shut it off.
Aw, honey-- you know, like beth said, it's baby steps. Maybe one of those baby steps can be that knowing that the people who know you and love you want you to be healthy-- whatever form it takes.
{{{Andi}}}