yikes GC, dunno what to say. Good luck with that one.
OK, now that I have left the land of Buffista, and have returned to the land of heat wave, I'm thinking it's about time I got me some good mens sandals. Something I can wear barefoot, and not stink, that stays on the foot good, and looks nice. And hopefully, not too expensive. Any ideas?
Glam, call with a made up emergency and tell them you have to reschedule. You don't need to figure this out this very second.
::nuggles cookie::
Flat tire? Cat puking up blood? Just offering good excuses here. In your shoes I'd have a hard time feeling confident of the doctor, and it's just not worth the stress. GC, it just sucks.
If a doctor was going to be involved in the care of my ladybits, I might be uncomfortable knowing he hates what I do with them. If you decide to look elsewhere, I hope you can find a good OB/GYN soon, GC.
Ugh. I don't know that I could get comfortable with that situation. And while it may be a lack of exposure (though - $17 grand? I take leave to doubt), I'm not sure that right now is the time to be putting on your Ambassador for Teh Gay hat.
Unless it is. Do what feels right. But I wouldn't feel any obligation to stick with this guy.
Unless it is. Do what feels right. But I wouldn't feel any obligation to stick with this guy.
What brenda said. Sorry you have to be finding this out at the last minute.
I'm with Trudy on this one - delaying the checkup another couple of weeks carries no real risk, and you shouldn't have to see an OB you don't trust.
OTOH, if you accidentally slipped out of the stirrups and kicked him in the face, no jury would convict a pregnant woman - everyone knows those hormones make you crazy!
OTOH, if you accidentally slipped out of the stirrups and kicked him in the face, no jury would convict a pregnant woman - everyone knows those hormones make you crazy!
Jessica makes a grand, grand point.
Jessica made about 17 grand worth of points right there.
Thanks, guys. We've decided to go ahead with the appointment. This guy was recommended by both our fertility doctor and our OB (this tool will not be my regular OB - I will see him one time only for the screening). If we get bad news, I will ask my regular OB to recommend someone else for a second opinion. It still totally sucks and depending on how we're treated, I will be letting my fertility doctor and OB know about my concerns. Here's hoping he's just a shithead and not an evil fuck.