You turned evil a lot faster than I thought you would.

Angel ,'Just Rewards (2)'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Oct 06, 2025 11:04:40 am PDT #9574 of 9608
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Happy Monday for those celebrate.

It's a glorious blue sky day in San Francisco, very typical for October where we tend to have some of our warmest days. And a welcome change after an extra foggy summer.

I spent most of Sunday doing all the household chores I'd been avoiding for a couple weeks: cleaned the Guinea Pig cage, did the dishes, vacuumed the house, took out the garbage.

Consequently I arrive at the beginning of the week being Slightly Ahead Of The Game. Which is rare on any day but particularly on a Monday.

Trudged off to Pilates at 9am this morning filled with "I don't wanna" but I did and it's done.

I have therapy this afternoon and will do some errands while I'm out in the car and since I'm possessed with the rare spirit of productivity, I might do some laundry.

Grab that executive function when it makes an appearance, I say.


DavidS - Oct 06, 2025 11:19:56 am PDT #9575 of 9608
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

ION, I can't fucking believe that Bari Weiss is now in charge of CBS news.

WTF. I really hate her.


Steph L. - Oct 06, 2025 11:40:11 am PDT #9576 of 9608
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Grab that executive function when it makes an appearance, I say.

You have to ride that wave of executive function as far as it will take you. Pro tip: don't sit down. Sitting down derails the whole thing.

Aw Tim, that's rough. I'm sorry you guys are navigating this.

He went to the ER yesterday for 2 bags of fluids after he blacked out briefly in the hallway to the bathroom at 3 am Saturday night. That was exciting. I woke up to a loud ker-thud, immediately thought "WTF did the cat just knock over," rolled over in bed, realized Tim was not in bed and quickly put 2 and 2 together. As he explained later, "I started seeing spots and thought I should lean against the door frame [editor's note: not a solid, closed door; the door FRAME. but in his defense, it was 3 am and his BP was probably like 20/4], and then I was on the ground." So as near as he can tell, he blacked out for maybe a few seconds. By the time I got to him, he was conscious, just fuzzy.

Sunday morning he called the cancer center's on-call weekend line, and they were like, yeah, please get your ass to the ER. And the ER doctor concluded it was just dehydration. This is after he got a bag of fluids on Friday. (Looks like he should have gotten 2 bags.) After the ER gave him 2 bags of fluids and all his tests came back fine, his BP was in the triple digits and they cut him loose. He really needs a better system for staying hydrated.


Laura - Oct 06, 2025 12:24:40 pm PDT #9577 of 9608
Our wings are not tired.

Scary stuff! Staying hydrated is easier said than done.

ION, I can't fucking believe that Bari Weiss is now in charge of CBS news.

Walter Cronkite is rolling over in his grave.


erikaj - Oct 06, 2025 1:25:58 pm PDT #9578 of 9608
Always Anti-fascist!

I think that's him typing his commentary from wherever he is.


Jessica - Oct 06, 2025 1:44:59 pm PDT #9579 of 9608
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

ION, I can't fucking believe that Bari Weiss is now in charge of CBS news.

It's honestly so embarrassing. I'm relieved I don't have to go to work there anymore!


Steph L. - Oct 07, 2025 6:33:46 am PDT #9580 of 9608
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

This is week 5 of cancer treatment, and today is chemo day. Tim checked in with his chemo oncologist about his stupid low BP and trip to the ER for fluids, and the conclusion was "My friend, you need a LOT more salt in your diet!" So electrolytes aren't cutting it. Time to hit up Tractor Supply and get the man a salt lick.

The radiation techs told Tim that radiation to the head and neck is honestly the roughest radiation for a cancer patient BUT despite that, he's doing really well in terms of side effects this far into treatment (in that he's still eating solid foods and doesn't have a PEG tube and the pain in his throat is minimal). But the radiation oncologist did emphasize that the side effects will probably be worse after the treatment is over, just because it's a cumulative effect.

Unrelated to cancer but related to medicine (smooth transition there), after 8 weeks on Zepbound, I am down 11-12 pounds depending on whether the scale is a liar. The side effects are pretty well under control, so everything seems to be going according to plan.

My hip feels okay enough that I may hop back on the exercise bike today just to see how it feels.


Laura - Oct 07, 2025 7:16:21 am PDT #9581 of 9608
Our wings are not tired.

Today is a day for celebration! Happiest of happy birthday wishes to JenP! I hope you are being spoiled today and that the year to come is filled with all the things you love.


Laura - Oct 07, 2025 7:25:11 am PDT #9582 of 9608
Our wings are not tired.

It is great to hear that Tim is doing well with his treatment, and an end is in sight. Mmmm, salt! Also, good news on the Zepbound progress.

My hip PT has made a world of difference. The past few months, I've even been able to sleep on that side again. It is pretty much pain-free unless I poke at it too hard, so I avoid doing that. The only lock up I had was after staying seated in a plane for several hours, then in the car for a couple more. I should know better by now and get up and move around more often.

Next week I am going to acupuncture for the knee pain. It would be beneficial to be able to walk distances again. In my PT routines, there are a bunch where my weight is all on one leg. I can balance myself on one leg indefinitely, but only for a few seconds on the bad knee side. If acupuncture can relieve the pain, I can more easily do all the PT to strengthen the muscles around the knee.

Bodies, man.


Steph L. - Oct 07, 2025 7:37:51 am PDT #9583 of 9608
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Happy Birthday, JenP!

Bodies, man.

Seriously. I want to speak to the manager.