Don't worry, we're sure to spot Faith first. She's like this cleavagy slut-bomb walking around 'Ooh, check me out, I'm wicked-cool, I'm five-by-five.'

Willow ,'Get It Done'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.

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Steph L. - Aug 28, 2025 7:32:04 am PDT #9024 of 9028
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

He's probably on a different flavor of chemo than I was, but really common things across all of us at infusion were =cold= def pack a jacket, and they'll have blankets, but just those crappy hospital ones, so you might want to pack any soft/special/favorite type blanket. And snacks. They'll have some, but if there's something particular he's fond of, bring some.

His chemo appointments will be about 5 hours, and I told him "Get that Netflix queue ready!" He said, really plaintively, "I don't *have* a Netflix queue." I HAVE BEEN TRAINING FOR THIS MY WHOLE LIFE. If he doesn't have a Netflix queue, boy do I have some suggestions for him.

In the meantime, I apparently have to keep taking care of myself,* so I am off to physical therapy to abuse my leg some more. I don't think my request for a robot leg is that big of an ask.

*(This is a bigger problem than I'd like to admit, since I am extremely prone to ignore taking care of myself and just take care of Tim. But I promised him I'd take care of myself, too. Honestly, that's one too many people to take care of, but what am I gonna do?)


askye - Aug 28, 2025 8:14:56 am PDT #9025 of 9028
Thrive to spite them

Definitely take care of yourself !

And it sounds like a really good healthcare team for Tim with a clear plan. I don't know if I mentioned but one of Dad's cousins had throat cancer of some kind and it was cured and he is doing great.

Labor Day is Monday. Tomorrow E is flying in. M and I are picking him up at 8:30 or so in the morning. We'll go up to Mom's and he'll be there until Monday and M and I will stay overnight.

I need to pack and clean out my car tonight. I really need to vacuum it. I may hit a car wash on the way home.

E is taking 3 AP classes so he will have to work on some homework but it'll be so good to see him. And I'll give him his totally awesome dragon birthday present I procrastinated mailing and now get to give it to him in person.

I haven't talked to my brother recently. We are doing better with our relationship but I don't think we will ever be very close. But we are working on something better than what we have so that is good

And Penny has to go back to the vet. She has another UTi so I have to address why that is happening. And I need to get her medicine refilled. I've been inconsistent about giving it to her. I need to work out a better system.

I had my MRI on my shoulder/neck and so I am getting physically therapy. I have arthritis and some narrowing of something. I can't remember. I have an PT appointment on Saturday. I have no idea how I'm going to get it all scheduled . Especially since I have my deep scaling dental appointments coming up


JenP - Aug 28, 2025 9:40:03 am PDT #9026 of 9028

All good vibes to Tim for both chemo and radiation times. My experience with the oncology teams is that they were awesome and made things super easy for me way back when (almost 20 years ago, wow), so I have confidence that that will be your/Tim's experience, too.

Yes, taking care of yourself, too, just seems like a lot to ask, right? Where are our android assistants? I mean, I guess they couldn't do your hip therapy for you, but they could take care of so much while you were gone, just saying.

Enjoy your nephew time, askye!


brenda m - Aug 28, 2025 9:42:26 am PDT #9027 of 9028
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

If remote assistants are any help to you at all I am certain we can round up a posse.


JenP - Aug 28, 2025 9:45:02 am PDT #9028 of 9028

Indeed so, brenda!


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