No studying? Damn! Next thing they'll tell me is I'll have to eat jelly doughnuts or sleep with a supermodel to get things done around here. I ask you, how much can one man give?

Xander ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


lisah - Jun 11, 2025 7:47:32 am PDT #7652 of 7677
Punishingly Intricate

Hope you dodged the virus, dcp, and that everyone who got it has mild cases


Laura - Jun 11, 2025 8:00:27 am PDT #7653 of 7677
Our wings are not tired.

Oh yuck, dcp! Socialization should not have that price. I hope you remain negative.


Steph L. - Jun 11, 2025 8:07:36 am PDT #7654 of 7677
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

It will happen. You'll like my sister, Mona; she's one of us! And of course, Skinner is very sociable.

I'll be delighted to meet Mona! And it should go without saying that meeting Skinner will be extra delightful!

Now half a dozen of them report they have tested positive for Covid. Sigh. It will be another few days before I know whether I caught it too.

Hopefully since you were there for a relatively short amount of time, and outdoors, you managed to dodge the virus. Fingers crossed!

We have nice weather and it's a slow-ish work day, so I am aiming for hammock-and-book time later on today.


JenP - Jun 11, 2025 8:10:41 am PDT #7655 of 7677

I hope it flew right past you, dcp. And the gathering does sound lovely.

I also would have been miserable sitting in the sun for hours.

Yeah, that's not something I generally do when I'm feeling awesome, so... definitely not while sick. (I mean, I like sunshine, don't get me wrong, but in the stands, there's often little respite but ducking inside, and if it's super hot and with my pale-ass skin...)


-t - Jun 11, 2025 8:19:21 am PDT #7656 of 7677
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Hope it misses you, dcp!

Always sucks to miss out on something fun because you feel bad, lisah. Compound interest sort of thing. Woo Wordle in 2, though!

I realized at 8 exactly that I should have been starting work and had yet to get out of bed, so that's how my day is going. No reason for it, just time blindness and general disinclination to do anything at all ever (and trouble getting to sleep last night but that is very usual)


meara - Jun 11, 2025 9:50:07 am PDT #7657 of 7677

I got up and started work. But I have a terrible muscle ache in my neck/back so am laying with a heating pad hoping it’ll go away and cursing that I can’t find my stupid rice-filled microwaveable thing. It’s been a good 45 min and it still hurts so I’m frustrated


Laura - Jun 11, 2025 10:55:23 am PDT #7658 of 7677
Our wings are not tired.

Virtual warm neck rubs, meara.

Woo Wordle in 2, though!

Same. Love when that happens.


NoiseDesign - Jun 11, 2025 11:22:21 am PDT #7659 of 7677
Our wings are not tired

Skinner is very sociable.

Skinner is a sweetie. Give him some scritches from me!


brenda m - Jun 11, 2025 2:16:40 pm PDT #7660 of 7677
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Same. Love when that happens.

Me three!


Calli - Jun 12, 2025 4:41:59 am PDT #7661 of 7677
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I hope the roadtrip and pet wrangling go well, Laura.

And I hope you dodge the virus, dcp.

I’m still job hunting. I’d hoped to ride out the rest of my career at the university, but that seems unlikely.

Anyway, I’m still enjoying working in my allotment garden. More nasturtiums and beans have sprouted. And some things are coming up that prompt the evergreen question, “Did I plant that, or is it a weed?” Yesterday I went out to water and fertilize everything. There are some allotments that people evidently reserved and then never did anything with. The Canada thistle is nearly hip high in some of them. I can’t imagine the absent gardeners would choose to show at this point of the season, but if they did, wow—I would not envy them clearing those weeds.

I’m also enjoying the sense of middle aged community (some are older or younger, but the trend is 40-50-ish). Everyone is minding their plots, with little jaunts to see how things are going in other people’s and chat about rain, deer, what’s over- or under-performing.