I had found Mother's Who Think on Table Talk, and created my own thread on Divorce/Separation With Children as EM and I were separating.
So I had a lot of daily activity there and slowly explored other TT threads. It was actually the Buffy Quotable thread that convinced me to try the show since everything was so witty.
Picked up watching the show in S4. Wound up buying bootlegged VHS tapes from some random dude at college in Utah, so that was the complete run up until that point (S1-4). Was very excited to see Vampire!Willow.
First posted in the second Buffy thread on TT (1999 or early 2000). I posted a spoiler. My first response there was Dana yelling "My eyes! My eyes!" in response to my spoiler. Dana and Vortex were the first two regular posters that I associate with joining.
First met JZ at her Season 5 Finale party at her apartment in Berkeley (Met Matt & Beth there too).
First started hanging out with JZ after borrowing a tape from her for a missed show and we realized she worked three blocks from my apartment.