I could have my mom teach you the Look of Death, Hec. (For a white person, when Ta-nehesi Coates writes about the Look or Tone of Not Playing, I think I understand. But not as much as my brother!) There is always withholding the friends and/ or bf until you get some desired result, but maybe you don't want to isolate her *too hard* nor punish yourself by being the warden. Perhaps a short-term strategy, though. Says the non-parent who once told the kitty to stop being a bitch last month.
Never send a minion to do a god's work.
Glory ,'The Killer In Me'
Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
erikaj - May 18, 2025 4:22:11 pm PDT #7287 of 7289
Always Anti-fascist!
erikaj - May 18, 2025 4:24:14 pm PDT #7288 of 7289
Always Anti-fascist!
My brother still imitates the LOD. Probably because he works a nerve like there are invitationals. ETA: the bitchy thing my kitty does is sit so close on the bed that it bugs her when I move my arm. Sometimes she gets her claw stuck and then hisses when I try to free myself. Bitchy. ETA2: Not calling that the same as raising a human being. Just thought you'd wonder why I curse at a kitty.
Cass - May 18, 2025 7:48:42 pm PDT #7289 of 7289
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
God trouble, Laura.
ETA: the bitchy thing my kitty does is sit so close on the bed that it bugs her when I move my arm. Sometimes she gets her claw stuck and then hisses when I try to free myself. Bitchy.
I cat sat for my niece when she was hospitalized for her ED and that bastard loved catching my leg. Once he got his claw stuck in my calf and just dangled. I also de-balled him but the assault was prior to the desexing.