I wanna hurt you, but I can't resist the sinister attraction of your cold and muscular body!

Buffybot ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DebetEsse - Sep 28, 2026 4:14:23 pm PDT #14132 of 14147
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Yeah, under other circumstances it probably would have been great, but there was just way too much that was Not The Thing


-t - Sep 28, 2026 4:34:26 pm PDT #14133 of 14147
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

A million years ago I worked in Payroll for a home health company and figuring out travel reimbursements and overtime and who got paid how was super complicated. And I assume differs by state, as most employment stuff does. But I can't imagine it's ever simple and straightforward.


-t - Sep 28, 2026 4:35:09 pm PDT #14134 of 14147
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Good lord, that was literally in the last century.


Laura - Sep 29, 2026 6:06:33 am PDT #14135 of 14147
Our wings are not tired.

That's tough, Tom. Points for putting yourself out there though!

Yes. Easier said than done. It sounds like you have some other good options coming up.

So, I, like, pretty abruptly quit my job.

I have to say that every time I decided to quit my job it was the right decision. May things fall into place properly for you now.

This year's fall leaves are nothing short of spectacular. Last year was very disappointing, as they just seemed to fade away and die, but this year they are making up for it.

Yesterday was spent with my sister cleaning out her basement. Her furnace died so we are working on clearing a path for the old oil tank and furnace to get out and a new one to go in. We filled 38 big green trash bags plus various other containers and loaded my nephew's pickup truck, which DH took to the dump this morning. We'll work on it again today. She has a guy coming for an estimate, and she didn't want to terrify him. This is my hoarder sister. She probably hasn't gone into the basement in a decade, as she doesn't do stairs, and the outside entry has been sealed off for a long time. Most of the 35 bags were clothing that was piled up from when she used a laundry chute from upstairs. We cleared a lot! She also did some work in her main upstairs entry area. I'm hopeful she will be encouraged by how much we accomplished and might let me work over the next month to do the same in her main living area. Yes, we wore masks and gloves down there because the mold was significant.


-t - Sep 29, 2026 7:35:10 am PDT #14136 of 14147
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Made it to the surgical pavilion on time, filled out all the paperwork, waiting for Mom to be called. They will apparently text me status updates, which I appreciate


Laura - Sep 29, 2026 7:43:47 am PDT #14137 of 14147
Our wings are not tired.

Sending all the surgical~ma.


-t - Sep 29, 2026 7:56:43 am PDT #14138 of 14147
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Her surgeon is in another surgery, the nurse thinks they may get to her within the next hour, then an hour for the surgery and an hour of recovery. Cutting off the cast presently!


lisah - Sep 29, 2026 7:57:55 am PDT #14139 of 14147
Punishingly Intricate

Hope it goes smoothly for your Mom today, -t.

That sounds like an intense project, Laura, in a lot of ways. Your sister is lucky to have you.


Laura - Sep 29, 2026 9:11:34 am PDT #14140 of 14147
Our wings are not tired.

It is really serendipitous that the furnace went while both of us are up here. (Brendon does the heavy lifting) Today she found out that for the new gas system she needs two more vents upstairs, which means way more clearing. This is really awesome since it forces her into this. She was tossing stuff yesterday without even opening and looking through stuff. If she hasn't seen what is in an old suitcase in a decade or two she doesn't need it. Striking while she is in this mindset. It may not last, but I think she sees getting her house in order is possible and not so overwhelming with my help. I'm feeling optimistic.


-t - Sep 29, 2026 9:37:38 am PDT #14141 of 14147
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Glad to hear that, Laura

Waiting for the next status update at a coffee shop.