You know me! I'm like, "Go school! It's your birthday!" Or something to that effect.

Willow ,'Empty Places'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DebetEsse - Sep 28, 2026 12:45:18 pm PDT #14126 of 14147
Woe to the fucking wicked.

So, I, like, pretty abruptly quit my job.

I made my 10 years with the state and was going to do home health for a little more flexibility, but then DH got laid off, and then I was working full time hours plus paperwork in the evening, but due to various bullshit, getting paid less than I would working full time at the gas station down the street, plus not being able to leave work at work.

I get up to 2 weeks of Goblin Mode before I need to get my shit together.

So, go team "Not Really Okay At All"?


-t - Sep 28, 2026 12:57:11 pm PDT #14127 of 14147
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh my, Debet! Goblin Mode definitely sounds warranted. I'm so sorry you got put in that position.


Atropa - Sep 28, 2026 1:38:28 pm PDT #14128 of 14147
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Oof, Tom and Debet. I want the universe to stop messing around with Buffistas. I have a list of people that should have bad things happen to them, where can I submit that?


Jessica - Sep 28, 2026 3:33:00 pm PDT #14129 of 14147
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Would it help anyone at all to know that a new penguin species was discovered recently?


-t - Sep 28, 2026 3:43:16 pm PDT #14130 of 14147
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, wow! I had no idea there was penguin species controversy, I feel so enriched!


meara - Sep 28, 2026 4:02:13 pm PDT #14131 of 14147

Eek, Debet, good luck!! I have a friend who does SLP home health, there seems to be a lot of BS around travel time and what gets paid but otherwise she seems to like it a lot.


DebetEsse - Sep 28, 2026 4:14:23 pm PDT #14132 of 14147
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Yeah, under other circumstances it probably would have been great, but there was just way too much that was Not The Thing


-t - Sep 28, 2026 4:34:26 pm PDT #14133 of 14147
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

A million years ago I worked in Payroll for a home health company and figuring out travel reimbursements and overtime and who got paid how was super complicated. And I assume differs by state, as most employment stuff does. But I can't imagine it's ever simple and straightforward.


-t - Sep 28, 2026 4:35:09 pm PDT #14134 of 14147
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Good lord, that was literally in the last century.


Laura - Sep 29, 2026 6:06:33 am PDT #14135 of 14147
Our wings are not tired.

That's tough, Tom. Points for putting yourself out there though!

Yes. Easier said than done. It sounds like you have some other good options coming up.

So, I, like, pretty abruptly quit my job.

I have to say that every time I decided to quit my job it was the right decision. May things fall into place properly for you now.

This year's fall leaves are nothing short of spectacular. Last year was very disappointing, as they just seemed to fade away and die, but this year they are making up for it.

Yesterday was spent with my sister cleaning out her basement. Her furnace died so we are working on clearing a path for the old oil tank and furnace to get out and a new one to go in. We filled 38 big green trash bags plus various other containers and loaded my nephew's pickup truck, which DH took to the dump this morning. We'll work on it again today. She has a guy coming for an estimate, and she didn't want to terrify him. This is my hoarder sister. She probably hasn't gone into the basement in a decade, as she doesn't do stairs, and the outside entry has been sealed off for a long time. Most of the 35 bags were clothing that was piled up from when she used a laundry chute from upstairs. We cleared a lot! She also did some work in her main upstairs entry area. I'm hopeful she will be encouraged by how much we accomplished and might let me work over the next month to do the same in her main living area. Yes, we wore masks and gloves down there because the mold was significant.