Dawn: Any luck? Willow: If you define luck as the absence of success--plenty.

'Touched'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


dcp - Sep 10, 2026 9:28:36 am PDT #13892 of 14044
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Finish the garage? The yard?


-t - Sep 10, 2026 9:33:15 am PDT #13893 of 14044
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That’s super frustrating, askye.

That sounds like a really good arrangement, Hec, I’m so glad you were able to make it work! What a gorgeous place. And how great for Emmet and Karina to have a stable housing situation that they can afford that’s so nice!

Go Tep! Just say no to glass in popsicles. My sister was *thrilled* with how much hormones helped with her hot flashes, I hope you have an equally good outcome (after your back surgery is completely successful and recovery is going swimmingly, of course)

Dad is vacuuming so mom can come home to nice clean floors. Visiting hours have started but we are assuming that mom will be evaluated and whatnot for maybe a lot of this morning so we are not in a hurry to get over there and be underfoot. I am kind of antsy to get going but trying to be rational about it


Laura - Sep 10, 2026 10:06:41 am PDT #13894 of 14044
Our wings are not tired.

Good luck with the surgery and the HRT, Teppy.

HRT wasn't an option for me, just like hormone-based birth control, painkillers, and apparently a whole bunch of medications. Stupid body just doesn't react well, which makes me super hesitant to take any meds.


JenP - Sep 10, 2026 10:25:48 am PDT #13895 of 14044

Hec, it's so gorgeous - congrats all around! Can't wait to see the "making it their own" photos, which I am very presumptuously assuming we will be privy to.

Tep -- all the surgery ~ma. Monday! Wow, that came up fast.

-t, continued take it easy, phew, and smooth recovery vibes to your mom. Yeah, T-shirt and jeans definitely extend to two days. Even in non-emergency situations!

askye, it is a tough row to hoe, aging parents, and everything you feel is legit, which I'm sure you understand, but is still nice to hear sometimes. Sending good vibes your way.

I was not able to consider HRT because the reason I went into menopause (early!) was hysterectomy due to uterine cancer. BUT I was extremely lucky with a barely noticeable transition. My mom had a really easy menopause, too, so it had to be in the genes. Nice inheritance, that.

Going to spend the weekend with my aunt at the beach this weekend. I hope I age as gracefully as she has. Getting my ass to yoga, the pool, and Fit for Life classes at the Y would surely help with that. Ahem.


DavidS - Sep 10, 2026 11:02:15 am PDT #13896 of 14044
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Hec, it's so gorgeous - congrats all around! Can't wait to see the "making it their own" photos, which I am very presumptuously assuming we will be privy to.

Yeah, those photos are all staged so their stuff will be very different.

Just got off a conference call between the Escrow officer and my finance person to line up the wire transfer for the deposit into Escrow.

It's a non-stop flurry! And I've got a guest coming in this weekend for a 6 day stay.


DavidS - Sep 10, 2026 11:13:54 am PDT #13897 of 14044
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

So here's a wild thing that Jilli especially will appreciate.

My friend and pilates instructor, Rachael, was offered a free reformer (the equipment you use for Pilates. Pretty expensive.). She had no room for it but offered it to me so I accepted and cleaned out space in the attic for it.

Rachael and I went over to pick it up yesterday and she introduced me to Ted, who had the reformer disassembled.

We got the pieces into the car and driving back to my house, Rachael said, "I've known Ted since I was 16. He's best friends with my partner - they met in art school. I was so overwhelmed when I met him because he's a pretty famous cartoonist."

"What's his full name?"

"Ted Naifeh": [link]


-t - Sep 10, 2026 11:15:23 am PDT #13898 of 14044
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Dad’s trainer/handyman said he could patch the hole, Mom said she wants it framed or with a plaque or something, so y’all are vindicated in those suggestions!


DavidS - Sep 10, 2026 11:20:46 am PDT #13899 of 14044
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Dad’s trainer/handyman said he could patch the hole, Mom said she wants it framed or with a plaque or something, so y’all are vindicated in those suggestions!

Ha! Maybe the picture of Jack Nicholson's breaking his head through the wall in The Shining and saying "Here's, Johnny!"


DavidS - Sep 10, 2026 11:36:02 am PDT #13900 of 14044
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I feel almost like an Emu on Red Bull today, running around like a maniac dealing with all the emails, texts and calls.

I just got confirmation that the wire transfer deposit into Escrow went through. So that's the main thing had to happen today.

{exhale}


Atropa - Sep 10, 2026 11:43:33 am PDT #13901 of 14044
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

So here's a wild thing that Jilli especially will appreciate.
"Ted Naifeh"

Ha! I haven't thought of him and his work in ages. I should look up what he's done recently.

Yikes, -t! I'm glad she's as okay as she can be.

David, that place is gorgeous. Congrats on having the offer accepted! I know how stressful that is in the Sea-Tac area, I can only imagine how much worse it is in SF.