Gwen: Demon, OK? The whole nine—cloven feet and horns and teeth. He wasn't wearing lamé though. Lorne: Yeah, the evil ones can't pull it off. It gets camp.

'Harm's Way'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Aug 25, 2026 11:13:07 am PDT #13699 of 13711
Thrive to spite them

I know!!! There are so many henious people out there and Dolly is gone.


Dana - Aug 25, 2026 11:13:41 am PDT #13700 of 13711
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Oh, goddamnit.


askye - Aug 25, 2026 11:15:13 am PDT #13701 of 13711
Thrive to spite them

I got my new glasses. Posted on FB.

I had misplaced my regular ones so have been wearing my really old ones and it is a huge difference and I can't tell if there are actually issues or it's just my eyes freaking out.

I CAN see my phone really clearly though so that is nice not to have to zoom in on things or try to find the magic spot of getting my phone just close enough


JenP - Aug 25, 2026 11:33:42 am PDT #13702 of 13711

So sad about Dolly. Such a light in this increasingly darkening timeline.


megan walker - Aug 25, 2026 11:38:21 am PDT #13703 of 13711
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Guys, did you know that raw garlic kills sourdough starter? Well now, so do I...

Yes! It's antimicrobial and antibacterial. One reason it's so good for you. But not for sourdough. The allicin is a bit like sulfurophane in that it's best to do a chop-and-hold method before cooking to give the compound time to form. But, unlike broccoli, I think you only need to wait about 10 minutes, not 40. Or, for sourdough, cook it right away to inhibit the allicin formation.

Question for the job-bullsh*t hivemind: What's a diplomatic way to say "Why the f*ck would you expect something before the due date just because I received it early? The due date is the due date." My scheduled is jam-packed right now and I want to set expections for a project scheduled out to March.


lisah - Aug 25, 2026 11:39:20 am PDT #13704 of 13711
Punishingly Intricate

I am so heartbroken about Dolly. I thought she’d somehow live forever.


lisah - Aug 25, 2026 11:40:44 am PDT #13705 of 13711
Punishingly Intricate

Megan, “I’m on track to deliver by the agreed deadline.”


Laura - Aug 25, 2026 11:43:27 am PDT #13706 of 13711
Our wings are not tired.

Very sad news about Dolly. She, Buffy, and my firstborn son were all born on the same day. Brendon loved sharing the day with her. She was really one of the good ones.


meara - Aug 25, 2026 11:43:57 am PDT #13707 of 13711

Megan, I think depending on who exactly is saying it and the power differential, (and if this is just happening or already happened? Like did they provide it early today and say since it’s early you’ll return early? Or did they provide it early back when, and now are saying shouldn’t you have it by now? “I appreciate receiving it earlier than expected but the deadlines were provided based on (available time/competing priorities/project availability /whatever sounds best) and any changes would need to be (confirmed/agreed upon ahead of time/whatever)”?


megan walker - Aug 25, 2026 12:06:21 pm PDT #13708 of 13711
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

“I appreciate receiving it earlier than expected but the deadlines were provided based on (available time/competing priorities/project availability /whatever sounds best) and any changes would need to be (confirmed/agreed upon ahead of time/whatever)”?

I can work with this.

Basically, the message is from the middleman from my former employer who said that production was expecting the first two chapters of my copyedit review yesterday (when on the schedule Ch 1 is due today and Ch 2 two weeks from now) because I received both chapters from the CE early. I'm sure my keeping to the schedule (which they set) is fine since the book is not going to be published any earlier than the date on the schedule regardless, but it really irks me that this company makes you jump through hoops to make sure you have other clients and are not an "employee" of theirs when you set up contracts but then seems to think you have no other clients and can just drop everything for them whenever something comes in. I think I'll go with some variation of “I appreciate receiving it earlier than expected but my schedule is based on the original deadlines provided.”

Thank you!

And now off to my membership library to try to make the actual deadline and borrow 9 to 5.