I-I'm just taking things without paying for th... In what twisted dictionary is that stealing?

Willow ,'Showtime'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Beverly - Apr 23, 2026 4:56:01 pm PDT #12419 of 12473
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Happy 25 to Mac. Our grandson, same age, is now living with us, working and saving toward a place of his own. For reasons, that may happen later than sooner. He is a terrific housemate. He cooks dinner, he collects dirty dishes, washes them and puts them away. He walks the trash to the dumpster, changes his own sheets and does his own laundry. We're not in a hurry for him to move out, actually.

Everybody with access issues to medical care, my sympathies. The main reason I stayed at my office job as long as I did was family health insurance. When I did quit we had some adjustments to make, including a savings account for medical reasons, and reducing medical care to absolute necessities. Our kids were working and handling their own health care, and it was nearly 20 years Himself and I managed completely without, until retirement and SS. Having health insurance has been a revelation and a relief. Our local hospital provides excellent care and has a specific care center for seniors, so we appreciate tailored care for aging bodies--and minds.


JenP - Apr 23, 2026 6:31:59 pm PDT #12420 of 12473

I was bummed when Amazon bought One Medical, but the services, appointment availability, ease of communication, and response time are too good to let go; I've got too many issues to play anymore. Plus I love my main doctor there. She is the best.

I need to regain my motivation for everything stat. It has been a foggy month and a half, and I've been kinda cranky, tbb. Mostly internally, but still. I need to spend mornings or afternoons working at an outside location, for a few days a week, I think. Get out of the house.


-t - Apr 23, 2026 6:42:51 pm PDT #12421 of 12473
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh no, Jess! How awful, I’m so sorry.

Good God, Tom, prescribed the wrong dose and hasn’t fixed it?! Argh.


Jessica - Apr 23, 2026 6:55:54 pm PDT #12422 of 12473
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I get One Medical for free as an employee, I might as well give it a try


JenP - Apr 23, 2026 7:02:06 pm PDT #12423 of 12473

I hope you find it as easy and useful as I do.


Laura - Apr 23, 2026 7:15:40 pm PDT #12424 of 12473
Our wings are not tired.

Our grandson, same age, is now living with us,

That truly sounds win-win.

So, be impressed, my condo neighbors started a Mahjong night last week, and tonight was the second session. Only one person knows what she is doing and she is teaching the rest of us. I won the first game tonight! Of course I had to check with her to be sure I was reading the card right because it is absurdly complicated, but she goes from person to person giving advice and answering our endless questions. It is more fun than I expected. None of us are at all competitive so it is a lot of fun.


Tom Scola - Apr 24, 2026 8:04:29 am PDT #12425 of 12473
They pay me in WOIMS

So my new PCP has been ignoring my electronic message, so this means I have to actually get on the phone, talk to humans, and try to get my prescription (which ran out today) refilled. Wish me luck.


Laura - Apr 24, 2026 8:08:19 am PDT #12426 of 12473
Our wings are not tired.

I'm sorry, Tom. May the call go better than anticipated.


Tom Scola - Apr 24, 2026 8:12:42 am PDT #12427 of 12473
They pay me in WOIMS

OK, the call went smoothly, but guy on the phone can’t do anything other than ping the doctor’s office. We’ll see how it turns out.


Steph L. - Apr 24, 2026 8:35:00 am PDT #12428 of 12473
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

So my new PCP has been ignoring my electronic message, so this means I have to actually get on the phone, talk to humans, and try to get my prescription (which ran out today) refilled. Wish me luck.

Ugh, that is the goddamn worst, even for people who don't mind talking on the phone. It's always such a pain in the ass to unfuck something that you didn't fuck up in the first place.

OK, the call went smoothly, but guy on the phone can’t do anything other than ping the doctor’s office.

Man, the payoff for making an actual pain-in-the-ass phone call should be better than "I'll ping the doctor's office." Boo.