Giles: Stop that, you two. Riley: He started it... Xander: He called me a bad name! I think it was bad; it might have been Latin.

'Selfless'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Mar 28, 2026 8:57:17 am PDT #12144 of 12191
Our wings are not tired.

The news of Sue's passing is indeed sad. Here is her obituary, which mentions her lovely Christmas trees. [link]

Many protests in my region today, including one a mile north of me and one a mile south. Starting at 1 but the park a couple miles away was already full of cars at 10 when I took the dog. I'm hoping the A1A one comes this way so I can cheer from the balcony. Parking was full along the beach, but that is always the case on a weekend, and during Spring Break too. It will be hot and full sun today, so I hope to see lots of floppy hats and water bottles.

I joined the one in the summer in Old Forge, NY, where there were maybe 40-50 people and a walk of a couple of blocks to parking. I can't walk a mile in full sun at this point in life. I expect Fort Lauderdale to step up and represent well.


Steph L. - Mar 28, 2026 9:02:26 am PDT #12145 of 12191
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm so sad to hear about Sue.

Loved seeing her FB posts with her gorgeous tree every Christmas and her sweet animals.

Yes! Her Christmas tree was the first thing I thought of.


lisah - Mar 28, 2026 9:18:40 am PDT #12146 of 12191
Punishingly Intricate

For a holiday gift exchange she sent us the most beautiful glass Canadian passport ornament. It’s one of my favorites.


Dana - Mar 28, 2026 1:01:14 pm PDT #12147 of 12191
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

This part of getting old really fucking blows.


Calli - Mar 28, 2026 1:48:00 pm PDT #12148 of 12191
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m so sorry to hear about Sue. She was a lovely person.

I participated in one of the local No Kings protests today. At the time I was a little disappointed that I didn’t run into anyone I knew. Then I got home and saw I’d misspelled “government” on the sign, so now I’m kinda glad I didn’t. Still, the turnout was great, and everyone seemed pretty high energy.


DavidS - Mar 28, 2026 3:41:25 pm PDT #12149 of 12191
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Then I got home and saw I’d misspelled “government” on the sign

It's spelled "gubmint", FYI.


Calli - Mar 28, 2026 4:20:07 pm PDT #12150 of 12191
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

That “b” always throws me.


DavidS - Mar 28, 2026 7:50:28 pm PDT #12151 of 12191
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Looks like Sue died of Bile Duct Cancer which is "rare and aggressive."


lisah - Mar 28, 2026 8:01:18 pm PDT #12152 of 12191
Punishingly Intricate

That is what my aunt’s husband had and it is a mother fucker of a cancer and not nearly as rare as it used to be.


Susan W. - Mar 28, 2026 8:59:47 pm PDT #12153 of 12191
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

This part of getting old really fucking blows.

Amen to that. And also fuck cancer.

Rather than going to the big downtown protest today, I went to a smaller one up at Lake Forest Park Town Center, which has the benefit of having plentiful parking nearby and being a stand-and-wave-signs protest rather than a march. This combines to make it easy to leave whenever you want or need to, which is nice when one, say, has a dodgy back. It's the third protest I've been to at the location, and it's a visibly larger crowd every time.

I was chatting with two women standing near me, and one of them kinda squinted at me and said, "You look really familiar. Is your name Susan by any chance?" She looked familiar to me too, so I started listing off possible places/interests we might've met. When I said writing, she said, "That's it!" We figured out that we'd both been members of two different local RWA chapters 10-15 years ago, and she'd attended the Emerald City Writers Conference when I was on the planning committee and had a visible role.

I'm just amazed that anyone could remember the name of someone they didn't know super well and hadn't seen in over a decade. (Her name was Erin, but I never would've remembered it on my own.) And also a bit heartened that I'm still recognizable given that I was a lot younger and a good bit slimmer then!