Well, it's just good to know that when the chips are down and things look grim you'll feed off the girl who loves you to save your own ass!

Xander ,'Chosen'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


dcp - Feb 01, 2026 1:06:28 pm PST #11398 of 11600
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

“vibe coding”

Makes actual testing, at all levels, even more important -- but it's hard to get management to budget for or spend the additional resources, because testing isn't sexy.

Failures and rollback/reversions are embarrassing and expensive, though.


Laura - Feb 01, 2026 1:12:53 pm PST #11399 of 11600
Our wings are not tired.

Peeps, my diamond slippers are too tight! My brilliant plan was to go down to the whirlpool and enjoy the hot bubbly water with the outside temperature at 51°F, which almost never happens here. I did at least bring my warm clothes in a bag to change into in the pool-area bathrooms after the spa. Walked in up to my butt, and it was not happening. When I checked the heater gauges, which I should have done first, it was set to 104°, but the current temp was 90°. That will not work at all. Quickly changed and went back upstairs. So that was disappointing. My life is hard.


-t - Feb 01, 2026 1:15:19 pm PST #11400 of 11600
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oof. Our senior leadership is enthusiastic about AI but that hasn’t affected me in a practical way, yet. I use Zoom’s AI summaries of meetings as the basis for my recaps, but that’s it. And I still take my handwritten notes. I’m sure eventually there will be more specific directives about it, though.


aurelia - Feb 01, 2026 2:01:30 pm PST #11401 of 11600
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

with the owner tagging along

Is it just me, or does this kinda take the shine off?

msbelle, I hope your mom is feeling better.


-t - Feb 01, 2026 2:48:42 pm PST #11402 of 11600
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Would definitely feel weird with the owner of my company…


Cass - Feb 01, 2026 3:49:41 pm PST #11403 of 11600
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

You're gonna avocado!

I am.

I went out and broke up and threw chunks of ice. If my physical body is exhausted my brain has fewer weasels.

100% approve of self-care no matter the method.


Matt the Bruins fan - Feb 01, 2026 4:18:05 pm PST #11404 of 11600
Oh honey, the mentally unwell people have been in the fanbase since Game Changers was Stucky fanfiction on the internet. The calls have been coming from inside the house the whole time!

a four day trip to wherever in the continental US the winner wants to go, all expenses paid, with the owner tagging along.

The company I work at is owned by one of my cousins, with whom I spend lots of time outside work on various holidays, and even I'd be weirded out by that.


Sheryl - Feb 01, 2026 4:28:11 pm PST #11405 of 11600
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Yesterday was another disaster. Mr. S slipped on icy ground and hurt his arm. Gary took him to urgent care, where they x-rayed the arm and found no broken bones, He was given a sling and went home. After dinner he was complaining about the arm, and got disregulated when we wouldn't call PM Pediatrics about it. He called 911, and got physically aggressive with the responders, so off to the ER he went, with me following behind. His arm was examined, and they found bruising but nothing else. He then had another meltdown which resulted in him being sedated. I ended up staying there all night without getting much sleep. We got back to the house around 8:30 am.

On the bright side, I had my stress test on Friday and everything looked fine.


meara - Feb 01, 2026 4:29:30 pm PST #11406 of 11600

My company also wants us to use AI but I really don’t trust it.


askye - Feb 01, 2026 6:26:01 pm PST #11407 of 11600
Thrive to spite them

msbelle glad your mom's tests came back clear

We have an AI chat bot to find things or ask questions. It used to be called Ask Sam but they changed it to Sidekick (but there was something else called sidekick that they either got rid of or renamed) but I think it was more than just renaming it because the algorithm has had more issues. Before you could just type in "soy sauce" and it would bring up everything we had. And the only issue was using the word stock because it would try to bring up stock market results. Now I often have to type in "where is soy sauce" or "do we carry soy sauce" because if you don't phrase it like a question for some things side kick won't bring back results. And sometimes even phrasing it as question gets no results.

Laura it really sucks what people are going through and parents being afraid to send their kids to school. I worry about my customers and also my coworkers. And locally police have said they will help ICE so you can't even hope they will protect the community.