Saffron: I'll die. Mal: Well, as a courtesy, you might start getting busy on that, 'cause all this chatter ain't doin' me any kindness.

'Trash'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Jan 18, 2026 11:42:45 am PST #11148 of 11619
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Ooh, very cool, dcp! Friend to birds


erikaj - Jan 18, 2026 11:51:47 am PST #11149 of 11619
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

Somebody just said they missed me from a commitee I haven't been on in honest-to-god a year and a half. Kind of the compliment that's not, that one. (But I don't really deserve one there. It doesn't fit my schedule AND I'm not good at it. But in a pinch I write things or break ties...maybe that's leaving a little *too* graciously. She meant it nicely and she's pretty on top of things,generally, but there goes "Wow< I hope I'm like that when I'm her age."


Steph L. - Jan 18, 2026 4:39:04 pm PST #11150 of 11619
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

The steroid shot in my hip joint is definitely helping, but I also learned today that I can do 15 minutes on the stationary bike with zero pain (yay!), but I cannot walk into the grocery store, walk all the way to the dairy section in the back, with a stop in the frozen aisle, and walk back out without pain. So that's interesting data to have. Biking = fine; walking longer than from the living room to the bedroom = still owie. What the hell, hip?

Bodies are such bullshit. But steroids are pretty cool.


-t - Jan 18, 2026 6:38:33 pm PST #11151 of 11619
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Because on the bike you don’t have that impact of foot to ground? That’s why ellipticals are supposed to be easier on your joints than treadmills, right? Bummer that grocery shopping hurts, whatever the reason.


Steph L. - Jan 18, 2026 6:47:25 pm PST #11152 of 11619
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Because on the bike you don’t have that impact of foot to ground?

That makes perfect sense! So now I shake my tiny fist at gravity.

The awesome ortho PA told me (and later I checked, and studies back this up) that every 1 pound of body weight lost reduces about 4-6 pounds of pressure on the hips. That's wild, but again, it's gravity, man.


Cass - Jan 18, 2026 7:26:03 pm PST #11153 of 11619
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

That makes perfect sense!

It does but it's still wild what hurts and what doesn't. For me, biking has been bad since I hit a two-digit age.


meara - Jan 18, 2026 11:34:33 pm PST #11154 of 11619

Yeah I would assume biking is more range of motion and walking involves more actual weight bearing? Sorry it still hurts though hopefully in another day or two the steroids will kick in even more??

I went to a Heated Rivalry dance party tonight. They played songs and showed videos. It was not QUITE as much straight up edits from TikTok that I’d hoped (there were big stretches of the original music videos to songs, then the like 30 second edit) but still lots of fun. Past my bedtime now and I’m cursing myself for forgetting earplugs.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jan 19, 2026 7:09:53 am PST #11155 of 11619
Oh honey, the mentally unwell people have been in the fanbase since Game Changers was Stucky fanfiction on the internet. The calls have been coming from inside the house the whole time!

More power to you. I've seen so many video clips with a sped up version of that t.A.T.u. song in the last month that I've grown to hate it. Tinnitus from it would be the last straw.


meara - Jan 19, 2026 8:08:11 am PST #11156 of 11619

They did play that song once but it was a lot of mixing fanvids with actual music videos (since most of the fanvids on TikTok are short). Like”daddy’s home” to clips of Francois Arnaud.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jan 19, 2026 9:36:39 am PST #11157 of 11619
Oh honey, the mentally unwell people have been in the fanbase since Game Changers was Stucky fanfiction on the internet. The calls have been coming from inside the house the whole time!

Ah, that sounds much more enjoyable than I was imagining.