Tell me more good stuff about me.

Kaylee ,'The Message'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JenP - Jan 17, 2026 12:48:35 pm PST #11144 of 11619

So exciting! I feel like DC Union Station has to be on the itinerary... just sayin'.


-t - Jan 17, 2026 1:07:45 pm PST #11145 of 11619
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

It would be hard to avoid it, honestly. And I do want to catch an Acela, I think that's the end of the line for that route


Sheryl - Jan 17, 2026 5:31:11 pm PST #11146 of 11619
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Today has been a day. Barada and Nikto had appointments scheduled for the annual checkup and shots. We had a great deal of difficulty catching them to put them in their carriers. Eventually we got Barada into her carrier, but not Nikto. I now have several new punctures on my hands from Nikto. I took Barada to the vet, where she got a clean bill of health, and got her claws trimmed as well. She has since forgiven me. Last time I saw Nikto, she was still hissing at me and her sister. The vet gave me some gabapentin to mix into some of her wet food to see if that will calm her down enough to get her to the vet.

That was the morning. After lunch I went to the supermarket while Gary and Mr. S went to Gary's dad's place. Gary's aunt has been in town this week to help with decluttering. We met up for an early dinner.(The Bills were playing at 4:30-Gary's dad grew up there, so he's a fan)


dcp - Jan 18, 2026 6:03:12 am PST #11147 of 11619
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

I had a pleasant surprise this morning. I went out on my little balcony a few minutes ago to put out the daily ration of sunflower seeds. While I was doing that, five bluebirds and three bluejays flew in to the nearest tree and perched there, waiting for me to get clear so that they could have breakfast. They have learned my routine.


-t - Jan 18, 2026 11:42:45 am PST #11148 of 11619
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Ooh, very cool, dcp! Friend to birds


erikaj - Jan 18, 2026 11:51:47 am PST #11149 of 11619
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

Somebody just said they missed me from a commitee I haven't been on in honest-to-god a year and a half. Kind of the compliment that's not, that one. (But I don't really deserve one there. It doesn't fit my schedule AND I'm not good at it. But in a pinch I write things or break ties...maybe that's leaving a little *too* graciously. She meant it nicely and she's pretty on top of things,generally, but there goes "Wow< I hope I'm like that when I'm her age."


Steph L. - Jan 18, 2026 4:39:04 pm PST #11150 of 11619
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

The steroid shot in my hip joint is definitely helping, but I also learned today that I can do 15 minutes on the stationary bike with zero pain (yay!), but I cannot walk into the grocery store, walk all the way to the dairy section in the back, with a stop in the frozen aisle, and walk back out without pain. So that's interesting data to have. Biking = fine; walking longer than from the living room to the bedroom = still owie. What the hell, hip?

Bodies are such bullshit. But steroids are pretty cool.


-t - Jan 18, 2026 6:38:33 pm PST #11151 of 11619
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Because on the bike you don’t have that impact of foot to ground? That’s why ellipticals are supposed to be easier on your joints than treadmills, right? Bummer that grocery shopping hurts, whatever the reason.


Steph L. - Jan 18, 2026 6:47:25 pm PST #11152 of 11619
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Because on the bike you don’t have that impact of foot to ground?

That makes perfect sense! So now I shake my tiny fist at gravity.

The awesome ortho PA told me (and later I checked, and studies back this up) that every 1 pound of body weight lost reduces about 4-6 pounds of pressure on the hips. That's wild, but again, it's gravity, man.


Cass - Jan 18, 2026 7:26:03 pm PST #11153 of 11619
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

That makes perfect sense!

It does but it's still wild what hurts and what doesn't. For me, biking has been bad since I hit a two-digit age.