I prioritized being comfortable on the hourlong train ride to and from the city because I am older than I am cool by several decades.
Being comfortable is a reasonable priority. Makes for a more enjoyable event.
Well, it's just good to know that when the chips are down and things look grim you'll feed off the girl who loves you to save your own ass!
Xander ,'Chosen'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Laura - Jun 03, 2026 7:30:04 am PDT #8332 of 8356
Our wings are not tired.
-t - Jun 03, 2026 7:43:17 am PDT #8333 of 8356
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Sounds like good choices! And you looked good on FB
meara - Jun 03, 2026 9:47:40 am PDT #8334 of 8356
Shame about the leather corset but I 100% understand the issue of matching it to some appropriate bottom! I hate when I have a cool top or bottom but not the right piece to match it because the pants or shirts I have the waistline is too low or too high!!
I really miss having blue hair but I do not want to bleach my hair for it because that caused such damage. Sigh. Trade offs.
erikaj - Jun 06, 2026 2:09:09 pm PDT #8335 of 8356
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal
Once again, I failed to turn the world on with my dials. I remember when that used to feel super-important. Wow, I guess I have a real working life after all. Yay? (Except, since it feels like I do everything backwards maybe I'll have a retirement filled with commutes and front-office intrigue...pretty bad that I'm bored enough to kind of anticipate that, right?)
Calli - Jun 07, 2026 6:24:50 pm PDT #8336 of 8356
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
I feel like 7pm on a Tuesday can be punk, but can't be glam.
I think events starting at 7pm on a Tuesday have a potential “damn the man, my boss won’t see me Wednesday morning” aspect that makes them potentially punk. But yeah, nsm glam.
EpicTangent - Jun 17, 2026 3:27:52 pm PDT #8337 of 8356
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
Hey, All!
I was all excited to see so many posts in Bitches! As so many others have stated, there was a time when Bitches was my world because I just couldn't keep up with Natter.
So if anyone was wondering, I am still amongst the living, and the Buffistas. I'm just having a hard time keeping up again/still.
I am older than I am cool by several decades.
Truer words, man...
EpicTangent - Jun 17, 2026 3:31:04 pm PDT #8338 of 8356
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
To start the birthday pre-celebrations in Bitches: Tuesday the 23rd is the birthday of the wondrous Steph! Which means that Sunday the 21st is the birthday of the wondrous ME!!!!!!!
EpicTangent - Jun 17, 2026 3:48:58 pm PDT #8339 of 8356
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
This was the other problem - I'm on Pacific time and usually don't have free time for posting until the afternoon. So by the time I post something, you guys are all at dinner or commuting home or whatever so no one responds and I feel so unloved. :(
-t - Jun 17, 2026 3:55:13 pm PDT #8340 of 8356
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Epic! So good to see your pixels!!!
Steph L. - Jun 17, 2026 4:06:19 pm PDT #8341 of 8356
That which does not kill you should RUN
Epic!!!
To start the birthday pre-celebrations in Bitches: Tuesday the 23rd is the birthday of the wondrous Steph! Which means that Sunday the 21st is the birthday of the wondrous ME!!!!!!!
Your birthday is always a delightful harbinger of mine! Double nickel (55) for me this year, whew.