I went camping with the girl scouts over the weekend, and one of the other parents is miffed at me because I made one of the girls cry. After supervising the cleaning out of our cabin, another girl started running in to "dance" I asked her not to, then told her not to, since the cabin was already swept and everyone's shoes were muddy. I told her she'd lose one of the bracelets the troop leader had given us to hand out to helpful girls, and take away for girls not listening. She went in, tracked in dirt, and I told her she owed me a bracelet and then she cried for over an hour. One of the parents (not of the girl from whom I'd claimed a bracelet) pulled me aside to say, "with some children, you just can't tell them they did anything wrong because they are too sensitive." I just pointed out that I used the discipline we'd all agreed to at the beginning of the trip, girls included, and walked away.
So, long story short, we aren't going to be buddies that mother and I.
Also, K's troop leader is also president of the PTA, troop leader for her older daughter's troop, class mother, and has a baby at home. I'm impressed and scared of her.