Oh, Stephanie, how dare you not be thrilled that he finds you interesting! Thank god he offered to help you out.
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'War Stories'
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Oh, Stephanie, how dare you not be thrilled that he finds you interesting! Thank god he offered to help you out.
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Wow.
Thanks- he had been a nice presence in FB before and the whole thing was sort of head spinning. There was also some comment about "I know you are in divorce counseling" as if, he was willing to cut me some slack because of that. The whole thing was just...yuck. I'm hoping to quietly defriend him or something like then in the next day or so.
Oh, ugh. Defriend like the quiet wind.
Fuck it, just flat out defriend him. Don't be polite, don't be mincing. He was an ass. Be done. He doesn't deserve shit. You've no obligation to him.
Defriend now.
Natural selection at work. On a dating site I hadn't immediately responded to a message that was very short and not very conversational. Next thing I know, I have another message from him calling me a "lardass c*nt" but without the asterisk. And he blocked me. Which, hey, see ya. Glad I never responded to him.
Fuck it, just flat out defriend him. Don't be polite, don't be mincing. He was an ass. Be done. He doesn't deserve shit. You've no obligation to him.
sarameg is right. He was an ass, and doesn't deserve any slack.
Ugh.
I'm hoping that the flirting directed at me at work doesn't get out of hand. Today I asked another co-worker if it was too late for me to start wearing a ring to work.
Music! I find new stuff from multitude of sources. Most recently it's been background stuff on tv shows and samplers from NoiseTrade. The shows I work on are an influence as well. For a while I was listening to Balkan electro gypsy music.
Kat, I would be happy to take a box or two of Samoas, depending on how much shipping would be.
Okay! I think I can figure out shipping. How many boxes?
Defriending was totally the right move. The flirting alone justified it. But the fact that he responded to being called on it by trying to bully moves him into a whole worse category of asshole - the kind who is looking for someone who can be pushed into not defending their boundaries.