Thanks- he had been a nice presence in FB before and the whole thing was sort of head spinning. There was also some comment about "I know you are in divorce counseling" as if, he was willing to cut me some slack because of that. The whole thing was just...yuck. I'm hoping to quietly defriend him or something like then in the next day or so.
Early: You folks are all insane. Simon: Well, my sister's a ship. We had a complicated childhood.
'Objects In Space'
Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Stephanie - Mar 02, 2013 5:54:48 pm PST #13430 of 30001
Trust my rage
-t - Mar 02, 2013 6:01:34 pm PST #13431 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Oh, ugh. Defriend like the quiet wind.
sarameg - Mar 02, 2013 6:03:35 pm PST #13432 of 30001
Fuck it, just flat out defriend him. Don't be polite, don't be mincing. He was an ass. Be done. He doesn't deserve shit. You've no obligation to him.
SuziQ - Mar 02, 2013 6:08:07 pm PST #13433 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Defriend now.
Natural selection at work. On a dating site I hadn't immediately responded to a message that was very short and not very conversational. Next thing I know, I have another message from him calling me a "lardass c*nt" but without the asterisk. And he blocked me. Which, hey, see ya. Glad I never responded to him.
Atropa - Mar 02, 2013 6:11:47 pm PST #13434 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Fuck it, just flat out defriend him. Don't be polite, don't be mincing. He was an ass. Be done. He doesn't deserve shit. You've no obligation to him.
sarameg is right. He was an ass, and doesn't deserve any slack.
aurelia - Mar 02, 2013 6:15:44 pm PST #13435 of 30001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.
Ugh.
I'm hoping that the flirting directed at me at work doesn't get out of hand. Today I asked another co-worker if it was too late for me to start wearing a ring to work.
Music! I find new stuff from multitude of sources. Most recently it's been background stuff on tv shows and samplers from NoiseTrade. The shows I work on are an influence as well. For a while I was listening to Balkan electro gypsy music.
Kat - Mar 02, 2013 6:36:07 pm PST #13436 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo
Kat, I would be happy to take a box or two of Samoas, depending on how much shipping would be.
Okay! I think I can figure out shipping. How many boxes?
Typo Boy - Mar 02, 2013 6:43:59 pm PST #13437 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Defriending was totally the right move. The flirting alone justified it. But the fact that he responded to being called on it by trying to bully moves him into a whole worse category of asshole - the kind who is looking for someone who can be pushed into not defending their boundaries.
sarameg - Mar 02, 2013 6:47:25 pm PST #13438 of 30001
Humanoids who don't treat people like people don't get any benefit of the doubt, common courtesy,etc. Excise them. Fuck being a nice girl. Uhg.
Kiba Rika - Mar 02, 2013 6:55:08 pm PST #13439 of 30001
I may have to seize the cat.
Hey, Buffistas. How YOU doin'? I'm doing some reworking of jossisahottie.com (yes, it's still a thing, no, I have not outgrown this obsession) and was poking through the archives. I have to tell you, the fall of 2002 through the spring of 2005 was a pretty rough period for me and you guys made it pleasant in spite of that. So thanks, pals!