Xander ,'End of Days'
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Defriend now.
Natural selection at work. On a dating site I hadn't immediately responded to a message that was very short and not very conversational. Next thing I know, I have another message from him calling me a "lardass c*nt" but without the asterisk. And he blocked me. Which, hey, see ya. Glad I never responded to him.
Fuck it, just flat out defriend him. Don't be polite, don't be mincing. He was an ass. Be done. He doesn't deserve shit. You've no obligation to him.
sarameg is right. He was an ass, and doesn't deserve any slack.
Ugh.
I'm hoping that the flirting directed at me at work doesn't get out of hand. Today I asked another co-worker if it was too late for me to start wearing a ring to work.
Music! I find new stuff from multitude of sources. Most recently it's been background stuff on tv shows and samplers from NoiseTrade. The shows I work on are an influence as well. For a while I was listening to Balkan electro gypsy music.
Kat, I would be happy to take a box or two of Samoas, depending on how much shipping would be.
Okay! I think I can figure out shipping. How many boxes?
Defriending was totally the right move. The flirting alone justified it. But the fact that he responded to being called on it by trying to bully moves him into a whole worse category of asshole - the kind who is looking for someone who can be pushed into not defending their boundaries.
Humanoids who don't treat people like people don't get any benefit of the doubt, common courtesy,etc. Excise them. Fuck being a nice girl. Uhg.
Hey, Buffistas. How YOU doin'? I'm doing some reworking of jossisahottie.com (yes, it's still a thing, no, I have not outgrown this obsession) and was poking through the archives. I have to tell you, the fall of 2002 through the spring of 2005 was a pretty rough period for me and you guys made it pleasant in spite of that. So thanks, pals!
samplers from NoiseTrade
I've tried a lot of new music lately thanks to them.
Fuck it, just flat out defriend him. Don't be polite, don't be mincing. He was an ass. Be done. He doesn't deserve shit. You've no obligation to him.
Just echoing what others have said, you don't owe this condescending asshole any more of your time. He should be grateful for a clean defriending rather than a "Girl 101" lesson about not finding inappropriate advances from married men "interesting" on his facebook wall where his wife could read it.
So thanks, pals!
Awww, I'm glad things are better now.