Saffron: I'll die. Mal: Well, as a courtesy, you might start getting busy on that, 'cause all this chatter ain't doin' me any kindness.

'Trash'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Theodosia - Dec 16, 2011 4:13:12 pm PST #11867 of 30001
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Sue, no -- evidently the creators went with making the episode out of continuity so that it would be "timeless".


aurelia - Dec 16, 2011 4:20:57 pm PST #11868 of 30001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

My mild claustrophobia is triggered by people crowding me and not necessarily small spaces. I don't panic, though. I'm just intensely uncomfortable. Tunnels don't thrill me either. I always feel like I can breathe easier when I get out of a tunnel, which doesn't make a lot of sense when I'm in a car or train, but there it is.


sarameg - Dec 16, 2011 4:24:41 pm PST #11869 of 30001

A good friend has a similar elevator claustrophobia. She can ride with 2-3 people in an average box, but she tells everyone not to touch her, stand close or between her and the door. She goes sorta catatonic, but apparently the few times people have violated her rules, she flips the fuck out into fight or flight. People have been clocked. And it wasn't over once she got out those times; she had something resembling seizures and passed out.

She simply cannot do closet sized elevators in older buildings. She's used the fire escape on occasion.

Everyone who has ever dined with her knows to let her pick her seat first, and if she asked to switch, do without question. You could see her lizardbrain sapping her reason right in front of you if she felt closed in.

When she was in labor with her first, her doctor finally had to put a sign on the door to ask people to not stand in the doorway. Room wasn't particularly small, but somehow someone in the doorway triggered her and her and baby's heart rates would start going all crazy and she'd get non-cooperative and non-responsive. (Dr knew about her issues and took them seriously. She'd witnessed an event in a teeny exam room.)


Sue - Dec 16, 2011 4:25:01 pm PST #11870 of 30001
hip deep in pie

Sue, no -- evidently the creators went with making the episode out of continuity so that it would be "timeless".

Cool.


Cass - Dec 16, 2011 4:38:56 pm PST #11871 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

But with a catsitter coming in while I'm gone

Yeah, no. I am sorry you have to pay weekend rates and that it happened at all.

When she was in labor with her first

I think birth with claustrophobia issues of any flavor must be awful. I've only been witness but there are people coming and going and ack!


Burrell - Dec 16, 2011 4:43:17 pm PST #11872 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

When I gave birth to Franny there were 5 other people there, all actively helping in one way or another.


sarameg - Dec 16, 2011 4:52:45 pm PST #11873 of 30001

When Lisa's T was actually born, there was...let's see...her husband, daughter, me, her OB, nurse for baby in the background until needed, nurse assisting the OB, and one monitoring Lisa . Until the actual "here we go" part, it was usually just Jimmy and a nurse, with Miss P and I coming and going. As well as the epi guy.

It's almost been 4 years. I should ask Lisa to see the vid I took (at their request.) I am shit with taking video, it was a crash course, I was more focused on Miss P and HOLYSHITBIRTH than the damned camera. Though they said I did a good job at that.


Cass - Dec 16, 2011 5:09:25 pm PST #11874 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

It's almost been 4 years. I should ask Lisa to see the vid I took (at their request.) I am shit with taking video, it was a crash course, I was more focused on Miss P and HOLYSHITBIRTH than the damned camera. Though they said I did a good job at that.

My sister requested I film Nephlet. One, I am not a videographer. Two, episiotomy. I've never seen the film but I am told it was good and I only wavered at that one part.

Also my (omg does not drink or take anything stronger than Advil) stepmom and I were debating whether it was better to continue drugging my sister or if we should take the drugs instead. It was a long labor.


sarameg - Dec 16, 2011 5:15:33 pm PST #11875 of 30001

I don't recall if there was an episiotomy. I think there was. Funny, I don't recall.


Sue - Dec 16, 2011 5:18:37 pm PST #11876 of 30001
hip deep in pie

Okay, upon further investigation, there was a metal housing and only two wires. I decided to tackle the switch switch. I have light, and so far, my house is not on fire. I am thinking more seriously about having the house rewired...those wires are old.