Not at all your fault IN ANY WAY.
Willow ,'Same Time, Same Place'
Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork
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SO not your fault, Zen. But I realize rational thought may not be in play right now.
Contractors that go into homes with women should NOT act that way! CREEPTASTIC!
So not your fault Zenkitty - that's completely inappropriate and unprofessional on his part, not to mention CREEPY. I'm for locking down and having a friend come by, for starters.
Ew, ew, ew, Zenkitty. You are totally entitled to be freaked out. And if he calls you again and says anything inappropriate, call the company.
There are men out there who get off on making women uncomfortable like that: I don't know whether they think it's just sexual tension, or because it's just a fun display of their "manly power", but it's totally inappropriate, especially in that situation.
I don't know anyone in this town, certainly not anyone I could/would call to come over and comfort me when nothing's actually happened and I'm just being pathetic.
I'd call the company if it is posible
they are not coming to comfort you - they would be showing up so you are not alone. You are not in a safe situation
I understand all the good reasons to call the company and I truly don't want to.
I don't feel like I'm not safe. I don't think he's going to pursue now that he's gotten a clear signal that I'm not wanting to - and jesus I really hope I was clear enough when he called me - I'm freaking out not just because of him coming on too strong in a situation when I really did not expect it - I'm freaking because (a) I feel like I "led him on" by not speaking up clearly when I became uncomfortable, the absence of "no" of course being "yes", and (b) because I wasn't able to speak up when I became uncomfortable.