We're not gonna die. We can't die, Bendis. You know why? Because we are so very pretty. We are just too pretty for God to let us die.

Mal ,'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Jul 19, 2011 10:14:33 am PDT #25669 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I don't even know what the alternatives are.

IUD FTW! I picked the IUD when I was 35 because of the increased rate of clots and heart stuff in older women (ouch...I'm "older"). The Mirena does release a low dose of levonorgestrel, but my OB/GYN said that because it releases it in the uterus, the levonorgestrel doesn't get into your system the way it does with oral BCPs. And then there's the totally non-hormonal copper IUD.

Although there also non-latex condoms. I don't know how they compare, in terms of sensation and whatnot.


Kate P. - Jul 19, 2011 10:16:07 am PDT #25670 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Also, Zen, you can get the lambskin condoms. Although not if you're a vegan, I guess.

There are other synthetic nonlatex condoms too, which I would google if I weren't at work. But I've been buying them for years. I can't remember the exact name, but I'm pretty sure the brand is Durex.


Zenkitty - Jul 19, 2011 10:17:48 am PDT #25671 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I'm the opposite of vegan! Lambskin condoms would work, as will the non-latex plasticy ones they have now, but neither have been proven to prevent transmission of HIV, so that's its own little problem.


Steph L. - Jul 19, 2011 10:19:14 am PDT #25672 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm pretty sure I don't have a problem with nonoxynol-9, but I cannot believe how much lube I need. (And I feel like that, for some reason, requires whitefont, when I regular-font every damn thing else about my sex life. I refuse to whitefont the lube!)


Steph L. - Jul 19, 2011 10:20:59 am PDT #25673 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Oooh, new antibiotic. Keflex (which is, IIRC, cephlexin). I'm curious to see how many days it's for. Probably about a billion.

I will have NO flora left anywhere within a 10-foot range of me.


Zenkitty - Jul 19, 2011 10:22:04 am PDT #25674 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I've considered the IUD, but it would only be worth it if I were in a committed monogamous relationship, and I'm not even dating right now!

And then there's the totally non-hormonal copper IUD.

Considering copper rings turn my skin green, I don't think I want anything copper up in there!

Like I said, not even dating right now. If and when the question begins to loom, I'll actually do some research.


Steph L. - Jul 19, 2011 10:25:44 am PDT #25675 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I've considered the IUD, but it would only be worth it if I were in a committed monogamous relationship

Oh, heck yeah. I waited until I was sure we were committed and monogamous before I went to the trouble of the IUD. I was just paranoid with only condoms.

And we *still* use condoms, every single time we have PIV sex. We are the most paranoid people on the planet. (But, well, condoms mean less mess, too, and I just don't find the messy byproducts of sex to be very sexy. Ick. I am what I am.)


Vortex - Jul 19, 2011 10:26:56 am PDT #25676 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Wet spots ruin the afterglow.


§ ita § - Jul 19, 2011 10:30:27 am PDT #25677 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Considering copper rings turn my skin green, I don't think I want anything copper up in there!

I'm pretty sure you're not locked down to Cu.

And there's also plenty of non P in V sex to be had.


Steph L. - Jul 19, 2011 10:33:19 am PDT #25678 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

And there's also plenty of non P in V sex to be had.

True dat.