They are doing this on purpose, right? Because seriously.
I like to think so.
'Selfless'
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
They are doing this on purpose, right? Because seriously.
I like to think so.
There's no way it's an accident. I mean, the jacket!
Does CI mean criminal informant?
Confidential, I believe.
Oh, that makes more sense.
I just hate (on principle) gender-based stereotyping like that!
I'm reporting! And I'm waiting for contradictory anecdata! And not getting any.
I got no value judgment, I'm just honestly surprised.
I love the guest stars in this week's White Collar. Also? Shoulder holster alert.
And I'm waiting for contradictory anecdata! And not getting any.
I don't have any, but any conversation I've had with a guy has included a woman....
Eh, I've known a number of het guys who are all talky about their feelings - with other guys, with girls, whoever will listen. And a few who are specifically more comfortable talking about emotions with other guys than in mixed company.
Clearly, I need to stop pausing White Collar so I can read the internet...
any conversation I've had with a guy has included a woman....
Der. It's not like I'm not reporting (also reporting being told (by said het men) that it just doesn't work that way).
If I were totally settling back on stereotypes, I'd be saying straight guys don't talk about emotional stuff, but that's patently false. I just want data that they do it with each other.
eta:
a few who are specifically more comfortable talking about emotions with other guys than in mixed company.
See? That's what I'm talking about.
The guys I'm talking about are all in their mid-40s now, too, so generation might be part of it.