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Cash - no good answer there. my guess? he never wants sex again? or maybe he never wants you to do anything he asks?
Or he's getting slightly kinky and wants to be disciplined?
Yeah, I have no idea. If I did that G would passive aggressive at me until I did it. He would never leave dirty dishes unwashed for more than a day so I have no idea how I would handle it. I am very definitely the slob in our relationship.
My guess is that he's like me and forgot completely because he was interested in some other nerd thing.
UNlike me, however, he did not run around like a lunatic and do these things the second you walked in the door because he felt like an idiot for forgetting.
A funny picture of Burt Ward as Robin: [link]
A funny picture of Burt Ward as Robin
There are not-funny pictures of Burt Ward as Robin?
I don't like the vibe of "you didn't do what I wanted, so no sex for you!" Withholding affection to control someone strikes me as very Rules-y and not indicative of a healthy relationship.
Relocating uncleaned dishes or laundry so that they'll be in the way of something he'll want to do, however, is poetic justice.
I don't like the vibe of "you didn't do what I wanted, so no sex for you!" Withholding affection to control someone strikes me as very Rules-y and not indicative of a healthy relationship.
When DH does something that pisses me off, it puts me off the mood for having sex with him. I fail to see how that's controling or unhealthy.
yeah, I wasn't actually serious, but it would put me off the mood too.
ION - showers, still awesome.
I've been NGA for too long. I'd probably fuck him on the laundry AND the dishes.
I'm with Jess. If I'm pissed off, I don't want to have sex with you. I see Matt's point if you're withholding just for punishment, but if you don't want to have sex, where's the withholding.
Personally, I don't see the point of withholding. I mean, I don't get any either! I'd much rather have the fight, everybody get their issues in the open, then have make up sex.
ION, is "there's nothing on the curb marking the no-parking zone" a valid reason for fighting a parking ticket? I just got hit with $115 for allegedly parking too close to a fire hydrant. (In a spot that's nearly always occupied on our block and I've never seen a car ticketed for it before. Since the curb doesn't have any yellow paint on it marking where the 8-ft boundary is, people in the neighborhood use a tree on that side of the street as a good-enough guess.)