If you want me to leave, you can put your hands on my hot, tight little body and make me.

Spike ,'Get It Done'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


tommyrot - Feb 19, 2010 6:25:09 am PST #9359 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

whereas a sex addiction doesn't seem to be harmful if you're not in a relationship.

Unless it leads you into having unsafe sex. I dunno - is that considered an issue for sex addiction?


Vortex - Feb 19, 2010 6:26:07 am PST #9360 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Probably, tommyrot.


§ ita § - Feb 19, 2010 6:28:40 am PST #9361 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I think sex addiction has less tangible downsides than a gambling addiction, but they do exist. And I don't see any reason psychological addictions don't deserve serious consideration and treatment.

Almost anything can be overindulged in to the point where it jeopardises the rest of your life one way or another.

Is it because sex is fun and everyone's supposed to like it that being addicted to it isn't considered serious?


erikaj - Feb 19, 2010 6:29:18 am PST #9362 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!

If you have, like, twenty "mistresses", I think the case could be made that you are sexually compulsive, but no, don't know what treatment is like. I also wonder what the hell Duchovny was doing that was so weird that they felt okay putting "sex addiction" in a press release, but since I like him, maybe it's better I don't know.


javachik - Feb 19, 2010 6:34:20 am PST #9363 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

The thing that impressed me about his speech was he admitted he had felt entitled. That's an important thing to be aware of.


Dana - Feb 19, 2010 6:36:54 am PST #9364 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I am incredibly irked by the fact that a technical reviewer felt free to romp through my document and make punctuation changes. Which are wrong.

I am taking some comfort in rejecting his changes. But not enough to stop being irked.


Sue - Feb 19, 2010 6:57:40 am PST #9365 of 30001
hip deep in pie

So I woke up this morning, got out of bed and immediately had to hug the door jamb to keep myself from falling over, I was so dizzy. Then came the nausea. Blargh.


Vortex - Feb 19, 2010 7:02:01 am PST #9366 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I also think that it's because people don't see the harm in it. I mean, people get the downside of gambling, but what's the harm in having lots of sex?


Sue - Feb 19, 2010 7:02:42 am PST #9367 of 30001
hip deep in pie

Happy Birthday to Beverley and Benno!


§ ita § - Feb 19, 2010 7:04:24 am PST #9368 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

what's the harm in having lots of sex?

They should ask Mrs. Woods. Or Tea Leoni. Or Tiger or David, for whom I assume it's driven home now.

You spend too much time doing anything, it can drive down the quality of your life, no matter how much fun it is. And that effect percolates out to the people in your life.