Oh, I was going to say this yesterday, ita -- it's about performing female rather than just being female.
And almost sixty-five percent of that was actual compliment. Is that a personal best?
Xander ,'End of Days'
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Jesse - Feb 23, 2010 5:15:26 am PST #10019 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
msbelle - Feb 23, 2010 5:19:41 am PST #10020 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
and now I am earwormed.
sooooooo phisticated.
I am really excited to have the luxury, and I realize it is a luxury, of potentially having ownership months before move in so I can paint and think about rooms before the full on stress of moving stuff.
I think I will be making a few trips to the Indian fabric stores in my hood also to find fabric for curtains, pillow, and sheers.
Lee - Feb 23, 2010 5:19:52 am PST #10021 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.
We need pictures, ita.
§ ita § - Feb 23, 2010 5:20:07 am PST #10022 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
I don't know what "performing female" means.
brenda m - Feb 23, 2010 5:22:42 am PST #10023 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
I don't know what "performing female" means.
Oh, huh, cause it was a total "aha" phrase for me. Because I really don't/can't do girly on a day to day, but I do love to put it on sometimes (see: prom) and it does feel very much like costuming.
Amy - Feb 23, 2010 5:23:05 am PST #10024 of 30001
Because books.
msbelle, I LOVE that color palette. My comforter is those colors, although only the lighter blue with the brown.
Jesse - Feb 23, 2010 5:23:30 am PST #10025 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Like drag queens, but I think it's about makeup and fancy dresses and a lot of other things, too. I am no feminist theoritician, so I can't necessarily articulate it, but I think it's about consciously dolling up in a way that screams "lady" in our culture.
Amy - Feb 23, 2010 5:23:55 am PST #10026 of 30001
Because books.
Because I really don't/can't do girly on a day to day, but I do love to put it on sometimes (see: prom) and it does feel very much like costuming.
That makes sense to me now, too. That's very much me.
Sue - Feb 23, 2010 5:25:58 am PST #10027 of 30001
hip deep in pie
As someone with a peacock/brown living room, I approve of that colour scheme.
§ ita § - Feb 23, 2010 5:26:35 am PST #10028 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
I have a definite opposition to calling that performing female. I would call that performing feminine.
Then there's the question of if it goes beyond clothing. I have no urge to change how I behave--I behave just as female as I ever want to.