We didn't have sex, if that's what you mean. That's all I do now, not have sex.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Barb - Apr 14, 2009 8:28:31 am PDT #6655 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

{{sj}} and bops inconsiderate friend.

And yay on the grandpa food props.

Aims, mine were fairly nonchalant about my surgery as well. Of course, they're heading into adolescent land, so not altogether surprising. It's not that they don't care-- it's more that they see us as fairly invincible.


Shir - Apr 14, 2009 8:36:53 am PDT #6656 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Sorry, sj, for the friend thing. It's less-than-great feeling. But hey, grand's approval IS a big thing! Yay you!

places a path of chocolate crumbs that lead from DFW international airport to my place in hopes of luring Shir

A-ah. Good luck with that. I mean, you can do this, sure but it's chocolate being AWAY from me, so for me it's more like taunting.

smiles innocently.

I lurv you shipping me. tacklehugs

"Mommy, I hope it gets all better. If you need me, I'll be with daddy."

Well, you know, it's not like I was there to pick up the vibe on which she said it, but I first read it as "I can't be with you there, and it's a scary thing, so I'll be with daddy, and I'm telling you that so you'll know where to find me then".

But again, wasn't there. Anyways, {} and good luck with that surgery, Aims. I'm sure everything will turn out alright.


beth b - Apr 14, 2009 8:51:31 am PDT #6657 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

knee ma~~~~ to your mom, Barb. and extra patient to the care givers

and surgery ma~~~ to you Aims -- May Em be an adult before she understands what it really happening


WindSparrow - Apr 14, 2009 9:24:23 am PDT #6658 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

tacklehugs

heheheheehhe

Yeah, Aims, Em just has no real frame of reference for this. Lots of ~ma for the procedure, and for your peace of mind.

Yay for the Grandpa approval, sj - that's gotta feel great. About your friend, that is too bad. Is there any chance that she might just be too shy, and feels she needs an excuse to contact you? I have a few people that I don't contact near as often as I would like, and I almost have to manufacture a reason.

For lunch I had fresh, steamed carrots, brocolli, and cauliflower. I stirred in some spagetti sauce and ricotta cheese, then melted some mozzarella over it. Teh yum.


Aims - Apr 14, 2009 9:34:11 am PDT #6659 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Oh I didn't expect Em to freak out or be worried. But her "I'll be with Daddy" was said just so matter of factly that it cracked me up and broke my heart a little. She doesn't rely on me for a lot and while I know it's ok in the long run because she does know I'm there if she needs/wants me, it hurts when it's so plainly put there.


WindSparrow - Apr 14, 2009 9:38:02 am PDT #6660 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

{{{Aim's mommy-heart}}}


Aims - Apr 14, 2009 9:44:01 am PDT #6661 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

When is the surgery again?

Not sure yet. Appointment with the surgeon has been moved up to April 24th. I went with a different surgeon in the same practice as the one I was referred to, because he did my surgery when I had my ovary removed and he did my grandmother's mastectomy. I really like him. He really blue eyes. I'm hoping for either May 8th or 20th for the actual surgery. It'll time everything out nicely if I end up having to do the iodine radiation.


sj - Apr 14, 2009 9:45:11 am PDT #6662 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Aims, that will probably switch back and forth a million times before Em becomes an adult.

I have a cute kids story! TCG's step-cousin was not there with her cute little girls (the ones that have such a crush on TCG) at Easter Sunday dinner. When they found out they weren't going to see us one of them told their mom that they were said because we were her best friends. She's five.


WindSparrow - Apr 14, 2009 9:55:04 am PDT #6663 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

we were her best friends

Awwwwww. So cute!


omnis_audis - Apr 14, 2009 10:35:38 am PDT #6664 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

For Shir, a secret chocolate link to lure her to Dallas: [link]