Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erikaj - Jul 22, 2009 8:26:40 pm PDT #17473 of 30000
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

shoot her? Yeah, there are reasons I'm single, huh? But I'm just SO OVER all that red-state shit. It makes me angry at my old "everyone's got a right to her opinion!" self. Even when I miss her sometimes.


javachik - Jul 22, 2009 8:29:44 pm PDT #17474 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Omnis, I'm torn, but unless you're really, really drawn to her for some intangible reason, she doesn't sound like a long-term (or even short-term)partner for ya.


WindSparrow - Jul 22, 2009 8:31:35 pm PDT #17475 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

That's a lot of flags, omnis. Compatibility of values is more important to a long-haul relationship than compatibility of interests. The big one is that you say you didn't even want to try to kiss her. Go with your gut on this one.


erikaj - Jul 22, 2009 8:34:42 pm PDT #17476 of 30000
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

In all seriousness(and thankfully for her, I am still uncoordinated and a gun-control advocate,) you could probably survive a few of those things. But not all of them together.


omnis_audis - Jul 22, 2009 8:34:44 pm PDT #17477 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Ya, it was strange. The thing that has *really* drawn me to her was her spicy brain. She's SMART! Buuuut. I dunno. Friends, sure. But, I don't think much else. Ugg. Best prospect I've had in years. :: kicks dirt ::


Vortex - Jul 22, 2009 8:37:12 pm PDT #17478 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Ugg, what do I do now?

only thing you can do.

Fuck the oppressor.

Seriously, though. Mary Matalin and James Carville made it work, why can't you?


omnis_audis - Jul 22, 2009 8:38:21 pm PDT #17479 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

But not all of them together.
Exactly. For the most part, they were all little yellow flags. Nothing major on it's own. But the combination. And I get the feeling there is more. The taking a bribe to bomb the final to help the bell curve irked me. I dunno. Maybe it shouldn't. But. It just screams HONOR CODE VIOLATION. And, I'm sorry, no President is perfect, but FDR is one of the bests. And Obama has barely been in for 6 months. He's still in reaction mode, and legacy from your church twit! And Carlin is a FUCKING GENIUS!


erikaj - Jul 22, 2009 8:38:28 pm PDT #17480 of 30000
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

If she thinks FDR was the worst President, she's not that smart. And the thing that makes me a great gf? How I let stuff go so easily. But I took fifty points off her hypothetical IQ score just cause I read that. She must be really hot. I could never make it with someone who doesn't like George Carlin, either.


javachik - Jul 22, 2009 8:39:30 pm PDT #17481 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I'm with erika.


omnis_audis - Jul 22, 2009 8:41:34 pm PDT #17482 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

She must be really hot.
um. Not really. She's got a great smile and beautiful eyes. The rest isn't bad, but, to be honest, not in my normal realm of eye candy. But, the brain! If she was hot, I might try at it a bit longer. But... I dunno. Friends, sure. Worthy of pursuit?? eh.