Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
I just wish I had the wherewithal to work more than 10 hours a day for a few days in a row.
What WindSparrow said. Anyone would be psychically depleted from this.
Yay Glambaby! FWIW, my amnio was easy and positive (and was conducted in German rather than Greek, so I could understand what was going on). It was just the drama surrounding it that was hellish, but I'm hoping you aren't relying on a Dr. Dobson disciple who believes amnios are tantamount to abortion for a ride to and from the hospital.
Also, do take it easy afterwards - remodeling the kitchen can wait a day!
Whenever you work more than normal --it hurts your body aa wellas your mental state. Dh routinely works 9-10 nhour days This week -- closer to 15 ( dinner meetings ) . He is dead.
DH & I routinely work 12-14 hour days, sometimes worse. It sucks for our health, our children, etc. That is much of the reason that I go to the mountains for the summer. I still work the crazy hours, but while I don't have the school year responsibilities I can work in the relaxed setting.
I'm trying this summer to spend some of those hours improving my productivity. I've been training my assistant to do many of my tasks and we are writing documentation at the same time so stuff is not just in my head. Also working on getting the To Do lists under control. Just this week I have trimmed my main email inbox from 2300+ messages to just over 800. Mostly hitting delete, some filing. By weekend it will all be clear.
I do work for myself so I am the asshole boss that makes me work so hard, but working on getting it under control.
{{Anne}} I hope today is good to you.
GC! Baby Glamboy! Woo-hoo!
I am Burrell w/r/t the amnio - it was really helpful for me to get those results back and let those worries go. My high-risk doctor who did the procedure was fabulous, so it was an all around good experience. (Except for my DH, who felt faint and had to put his head between his knees. I was surprised he made it through my c-section, especially when he announced that he'd seen my insides.)
I remembered to bring everything to work today except for the thumb drive that has the actual things I've been working on. Oops.
FWIW, my amnio was easy and positive (and was conducted in German rather than Greek, so I could understand what was going on). It was just the drama surrounding it that was hellish, but I'm hoping you aren't relying on a Dr. Dobson disciple who believes amnios are tantamount to abortion for a ride to and from the hospital.
It was totally my decision to hold off. We went in prepared to do the amnio, but as the dr. was checking and double-checking everything during the u/s and saying perfect, perfect, perfect, I just felt like it wasn't the right time. We're doing another screen to see what the numbers say. I was surprisingly way more emotional about it all than I thought I would be - it just didn't feel right to me. The dr. supported my decision (and DW agreed as well). If the next numbers come back low again, we'll do the amnio, but dr. said he'll be shocked if they do. All three of us felt like there was a perfectly healthy little dude in there.
Also, {{{Anne}}}
IME, so much of what you do or don't do during pregnancy relies so much on instinct and whether or not it feels right. I'm glad you were able to tell your doc that it wasn't the right time and that he supported your decision. Yay good docs!!
::kermitwaves to perfectly healthy little dude::
Cookie, since we're looking at a boy do you think you'll go Bad Badz Maru? Dear Daniel? Or boldly give him a nice pink Hello Kitty nursery?
A few years ago Sanrio had a purple gingham/bee theme going. It was magnificient. [link]
All three of us felt like there was a perfectly healthy little dude in there.
That's so good to hear - really fantastic!
Ya! The words "Perfect" to describe the sprog is most excellent!
ION, I think I was abducted by aliens last night. Must be that. Ya. I think they shoved a tube down my throat and stuck sharp things into my neck. Either that, or I slept really strange and snored a lot last night. But it can't be that, because I don't snore.
so much of what you do or don't do during pregnancy relies so much on instinct and whether or not it feels right.
Yes, this.