Rut row. Long line. Rumored sold out. Didn't buy tickets ahead of time.
Oh, wow. This place looks great. Oh, I feel like a witch in a magic shop.
Willow ,'Help'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
omnis_audis - Jul 11, 2009 7:02:26 am PDT #16243 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Fay - Jul 11, 2009 7:07:47 am PDT #16244 of 30000
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.
Bugger. Good luck, Omnis!
beekaytee - Jul 11, 2009 7:16:44 am PDT #16245 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
For instance, if I *really* like the person, I have a hard time flirting, because OMG, what if I screw it up, come on too strong, or say the wrong thing, and then they won't like me?!?
I'm the opposite. (which is a rarity when it comes too you and me Tep!) I think I sometimes dare the other person to take me as I am, by coming on much too strong. Then, when they ease away cautiously, I feel as if I've dodged a bullet.
I used to be a real pursuer, trying to convince a potential of all my great qualities. Or, per the rescuer fetish, why they needed me. Now, I really, really want to find someone who just wants me...rather than needs. Or, I'll take what's behind the empty curtain.
omnis_audis - Jul 11, 2009 7:36:54 am PDT #16246 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
I am home. The event was over capacity. I waited in the 98°f hot sun for 35 minutes. I tried to break free from my shy shackles and go to an event solo. Cest la vie, right? Looks like I might be joining some friends for roller derby tonight. Ya think I should wear the snog shirt?
beekaytee - Jul 11, 2009 7:38:50 am PDT #16247 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
StuntHusband: Very, very me. So much so that I asked my mom (the psych-nurse) if I were anywhere on the Asperger's spectrum.
She said no, they'd had me evaluated as a child, and I was just a clueless asshole sometimes. (THANKS MOM)
If I had ever become a mom, I hope I'd have been like SH's mom. Love this.
Laga - Jul 11, 2009 7:47:58 am PDT #16248 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Looks like I might be joining some friends for roller derby tonight. Ya think I should wear the snog shirt?
What's the worst that could happen?
Burrell - Jul 11, 2009 7:49:31 am PDT #16249 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Speaking as a flirt, I feel like flirting is at its most fun when the flirting is the end in itself.
SailAweigh - Jul 11, 2009 7:59:32 am PDT #16250 of 30000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
Ya think I should wear the snog shirt?
Definitely. Find out where their after-party is (there will be one, guaranteed) and wear it there.
Laga - Jul 11, 2009 8:12:37 am PDT #16251 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
if I *really* like the person, I have a hard time flirting, because OMG, what if I screw it up, come on too strong, or say the wrong thing, and then they won't like me?!?
My brain doesn't even cycle through this stuff. When I'm in proximity to someone I really really like my brain just sits there like a goldfish. If it's just a friend I can flirt like Mae West.
Jessica - Jul 11, 2009 8:21:11 am PDT #16252 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
I have never dated anyone. I had one boyfriend in high school, then met DH the first night of freshman year in college. And had I not met DH the way I did, I would almost certainly be living a solo life of extreme hermitude alone with my laptop because I am WOEFULLY unsocialized. (To the point where identifying with Willow was impossible because she had TOO MANY FRIENDS. Anya, I got right away.)