A geeky girl? Awesome.
There's a couple of those around here.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SOX!!!
Actually not needing validation right now, but thank you.
Buffy ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Volans - Jul 10, 2009 7:37:28 am PDT #16121 of 30000
move out and draw fire
Glamcookie - Jul 10, 2009 7:45:29 am PDT #16122 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
I was pretty free with the sex back in the day and usually regretted it after. One of the main things I'd love for teen girls to know is that just because you had sex with someone/multiple someones, doesn't mean you have to have it with all the rest of the people you date. You can stop any time you want. I feel like I didn't quite realize that until later. Like, "What does it matter? I've already had sex with x number of people." But you know, it did matter to me.
billytea - Jul 10, 2009 7:47:13 am PDT #16123 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.
Heh. My dating experience is a bit of an outlier. There are a grand total of three women with whom I ever even went on a second date, and I married two of them. (Not at the same time.) I think I dated the other woman just to prove it wasn't just some sort of compulsive behaviour.
hippocampus - Jul 10, 2009 7:51:48 am PDT #16124 of 30000
not your mom's socks.
Thanks you guys! It will be a good day.
GC haz the smart.
Gudanov - Jul 10, 2009 7:53:41 am PDT #16125 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping
Heh. My dating experience is a bit of an outlier. There are a grand total of three women with whom I ever even went on a second date, and I married two of them.
That sounds like me only with one less marriage. Lots of single dates that didn't work out. Never had a girlfriend until college, though I should have had two in high school. But I was a stupid teenage boy and asked out girls who didn't want to go out with me while being oblivious to the girls who did.
tommyrot - Jul 10, 2009 7:57:20 am PDT #16126 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
But I was a stupid teenage boy and asked out girls who didn't want to go out with me while being oblivious to the girls who did.
I was like that until my 30s....
Gudanov - Jul 10, 2009 8:03:05 am PDT #16127 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping
College broke me out of it, clean slate and everything. Though I remember being frustrated my freshmen year because it seemed like every. single. girl. had a boyfriend back home.
I still feel embarrassed remembering high school. It's just mind-boggling how clueless I was. It couldn't have been more obvious they wanted to go out with me unless they just kissed me out of the blue. Which happened. Twice.
Trudy Booth - Jul 10, 2009 8:12:13 am PDT #16128 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
But I was a stupid teenage boy and asked out girls who didn't want to go out with me while being oblivious to the girls who did.
I'm probably still doing that.
It couldn't have been more obvious they wanted to go out with me unless they just kissed me out of the blue. Which happened. Twice.
I was once going back to a friends house to watch a PORNO with him and was completely surprised when he planted one on me. I was 21 at the time. Sad sad sad.
Connie Neil - Jul 10, 2009 8:15:56 am PDT #16129 of 30000
brillig
I didn't date in high school, and the dates I went on in college weren't dates, so much, as intersecting with guys from the radio station after late shifts or running into them at the cafeteria.
NoiseDesign - Jul 10, 2009 8:22:47 am PDT #16130 of 30000
Our wings are not tired
I dated and slept around a fair amount, that is until I found someone as perfect at Kristin, and well, you all know the story from that point.