Aaaand, coincidentally enough, when C met the tool it was not long after she was released from in-patient rehab for life-threatening anorexia.
And C is for "control issues"?
Chastity can be dangerous. I know two women who carried that guiltifying hard enough that even once sex was on the Nice list they really didn't enjoy it. I can think of two others that once their marriages ended went more than a little wild with the "I can have sex with someone else!" I can think at least three that when their marriages ended basically just turned off the tap and never had sex again. I think there are real risks in tying up your sexual identity entirely with another person. And I totally think it made more sense when people didn't have birth control and got married at 15.
OTOH, I know couples who waited for each other and have had happy great sex lives. Any curiosity they have about other people is pretty minimal. They're all good.
Personally, I'd go nuts with "what IFs" if I was only with one person in my life, but I'm like that with everything. I always want to see what's around that bend. And its a darn good thing I didn't wait because I haven't even come close to finding the right person and nobody needs a 39 year old virgin super porny pants.
I know a couple that lives together, but have separate bedrooms. He strikes me as gay or asexual, so I wouldn't be surprised if they weren't having sex.
Nah, that just forces the back to arch. Doesn't hold the head back.
This is true, you can also use the full head harness ball gags if you want to keep the head pulled back.
I know a couple that lives together, but have separate bedrooms.
I wouldn't mind a separate bedroom some nights.
glares at large, very strong dude with masses of hair currently doing his best impression of a starfish in our mutual bed. a snoring starfish.
I gather you weren't dating her for her intellectual prowess?
Actually, she was on the smart side of things. Also a bit butch. The more I thought about it, the more I think she was very very VERY closeted, in denial, and afraid of catching the gay. She is now married, still living in PA, and has some kids, and judging by her facebook pictures, looks like she drinks, ALOT.
I'm going to a wedding tomorrow for someone who is 29, been dating her fiance for four years, and...is a virgin
Now is that only penetration virgin, or is that virgin of ANY/ALL sexual contact?
Dude, you may be worse at attracting appropriate mates than I am.
Yes, I have a history of being attracted to the person in the room who is completely unattainable for one reason or another. For awhile it was lesbian. Then there was a stretch of married. And then the women I did manage to ask out were crazy in whole forms of ways, none of which I could call the padded room people for. Those are the best two examples.
Speaking of which. Um. I might have a live one people. OK Cupid! We just had a 2.5 hour phone call. She out geeks me in many ways. Is a gamer. As in, has been going to GenCon for MANY years. We are going to meet up on Sunday to play some Set. The biggest drawback I can see, she loves Loves LOVES dancing. Me? Not really a dancer. So, hopefully that isn't a deal breaker on her list. But dude, she TOTALLY out geeks me, and ya know, that is HOT! So wish me luck, hopefully there is chemistry!
The biggest drawback I can see, she loves Loves LOVES dancing. Me? Not really a dancer. So, hopefully that isn't a deal breaker on her list.
(looks at the Reasons)
I wouldn't make any assumptions on that point. Heck, she could have a StuntFriendboy she goes dancing with *already*.
Woot! Ah, the cure for my anticipatory-broken-heart (isn't that STUPID? It's just like being 13 again) is to cheer on someone else's glimmer of yay.
ya, it sounds like she has a whole group of folks to dance with. But, sometimes people are looking for the "one to share..." type of thing. I almost didn't respond to her profile, since dance was so prominent. But I could tell her level of geek was high, and, well, ya know, how can you resist that!? She's been dancing since she was 2. Apparently her name means "Queen of the Dance".
nervous? me? no.
Good luck, o_a, and good chemestry.
And if not, good alchemy.
Ah, the cure for my anticipatory-broken-heart (isn't that STUPID? It's just like being 13 again) is to cheer on someone else's glimmer of yay.
also, beating the shit out of something. I suggest bread or pasta dough.
also, beating the shit out of something. I suggest bread or pasta dough.
You could always challenge Pete to Burnout Revenge. It's his Achilles Heel of video games.
