Spike? It's you. It's really you! My therapist thought I was holding on to false hope, but…I knew you'd come back. You're like…you're like Gandalf the White, resurrected from the pit of the Balrog, more beautiful than ever. Oh…he's alive Frodo. He's alive.

Andrew ,'Damage'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


NoiseDesign - Jul 09, 2009 8:23:55 pm PDT #16070 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

Nah, that just forces the back to arch. Doesn't hold the head back.

This is true, you can also use the full head harness ball gags if you want to keep the head pulled back.


juliana - Jul 09, 2009 8:24:39 pm PDT #16071 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I know a couple that lives together, but have separate bedrooms.

I wouldn't mind a separate bedroom some nights. glares at large, very strong dude with masses of hair currently doing his best impression of a starfish in our mutual bed. a snoring starfish.


omnis_audis - Jul 09, 2009 8:30:30 pm PDT #16072 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

I gather you weren't dating her for her intellectual prowess?
Actually, she was on the smart side of things. Also a bit butch. The more I thought about it, the more I think she was very very VERY closeted, in denial, and afraid of catching the gay. She is now married, still living in PA, and has some kids, and judging by her facebook pictures, looks like she drinks, ALOT.

I'm going to a wedding tomorrow for someone who is 29, been dating her fiance for four years, and...is a virgin
Now is that only penetration virgin, or is that virgin of ANY/ALL sexual contact?

Dude, you may be worse at attracting appropriate mates than I am.
Yes, I have a history of being attracted to the person in the room who is completely unattainable for one reason or another. For awhile it was lesbian. Then there was a stretch of married. And then the women I did manage to ask out were crazy in whole forms of ways, none of which I could call the padded room people for. Those are the best two examples.

Speaking of which. Um. I might have a live one people. OK Cupid! We just had a 2.5 hour phone call. She out geeks me in many ways. Is a gamer. As in, has been going to GenCon for MANY years. We are going to meet up on Sunday to play some Set. The biggest drawback I can see, she loves Loves LOVES dancing. Me? Not really a dancer. So, hopefully that isn't a deal breaker on her list. But dude, she TOTALLY out geeks me, and ya know, that is HOT! So wish me luck, hopefully there is chemistry!


StuntHusband - Jul 09, 2009 8:32:32 pm PDT #16073 of 30000
Electromagnetic candy! - Stark

The biggest drawback I can see, she loves Loves LOVES dancing. Me? Not really a dancer. So, hopefully that isn't a deal breaker on her list.

(looks at the Reasons)

I wouldn't make any assumptions on that point. Heck, she could have a StuntFriendboy she goes dancing with *already*.

Woot! Ah, the cure for my anticipatory-broken-heart (isn't that STUPID? It's just like being 13 again) is to cheer on someone else's glimmer of yay.


omnis_audis - Jul 09, 2009 8:35:52 pm PDT #16074 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

ya, it sounds like she has a whole group of folks to dance with. But, sometimes people are looking for the "one to share..." type of thing. I almost didn't respond to her profile, since dance was so prominent. But I could tell her level of geek was high, and, well, ya know, how can you resist that!? She's been dancing since she was 2. Apparently her name means "Queen of the Dance".

nervous? me? no.


DCJensen - Jul 09, 2009 8:36:40 pm PDT #16075 of 30000
All is well that ends in pizza.

Good luck, o_a, and good chemestry.

And if not, good alchemy.


Vortex - Jul 09, 2009 8:41:02 pm PDT #16076 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Ah, the cure for my anticipatory-broken-heart (isn't that STUPID? It's just like being 13 again) is to cheer on someone else's glimmer of yay.

also, beating the shit out of something. I suggest bread or pasta dough.


omnis_audis - Jul 09, 2009 8:44:01 pm PDT #16077 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

also, beating the shit out of something. I suggest bread or pasta dough.

You could always challenge Pete to Burnout Revenge. It's his Achilles Heel of video games.


WindSparrow - Jul 09, 2009 8:45:51 pm PDT #16078 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

SH, you should have chocolate and petting by cabana boys. May the cheering on of omnis be the makings of good karma for you.

Good luck, omnis.

And then realized that I had no tortilla chips. However, I had flour tortillas, oil, and heat. So I made...

In this situation, I require the addition of cinnamon and sugar, and end up with a very sad imitation of bunuelos, that manage to be still tasty enough to warrant "Oh, my grandmother used to make these, I love 'em" comments from my coworkers back in Arizona. I miss real bunuelos, like I miss buying fresh roasted green chilis in bulk.

I was a chemistry major.

So was I, then I switched to psychology, with minors in history and Biblical studies. Completed the coursework for the minors, not so much the major. Oh well, at least I'm working in my field.


StuntHusband - Jul 09, 2009 8:47:01 pm PDT #16079 of 30000
Electromagnetic candy! - Stark

You could always challenge Pete to Burnout Revenge. It's his Achilles Heel of video games.

(makes note)