'A Hole in the World'
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
I'm not Tep but I think I can answer the kink line question.
It's kink if, after you've already consented to sex, it requires extra permission. Like, I wouldn't think twice about going down on someone but I'd probably ask before I smacked them on the ass.
And no, nothing popped up in google on the first page, so I'm still a little curious.
If you didn't turn off safe search, then I'm going to guess not much would show up.
Someone witty said, "Erotic is when you use a feather. Kink is when you use the whole damn chicken."
My 88yo mother was just saying a couple days ago she was thinking of getting a corset like her grandmother's because she knows it would help her backaches. She was wondering if her husband would pull the strings tight like she used to for her gram.
Where is the kink line? By which I mean, when is something considered kink? Is it unique to the individual/partners or is there a compartmentalization of "This is kink. That is just erotic."
You know the joke -- erotic is using a feather; kinky is using the whole chicken? It's basically like that. Or like the "I know it when I see it" definition of porn. Like, asshooks -- generally defined by most people as kinky. Corsets -- not always defined as kinky.
(And apologies if I offend with simplicity or asinine words.)
No (1) offense, (2) simplicity, or (3) asininity, my dear.
The Boy is still confused by the prevalence of corsets among the Buffistas who are not kinky, because he considers them a Kink 101 garment.
For some of us the kink is a factor. Though by no means all.
It's kink if, after you've already consented to sex, it requires extra permission. Like, I wouldn't think twice about going down on someone but I'd probably ask before I smacked them on the ass.
We always talk about it ahead of time, before the sexing even starts.
That way, the asshook is never a surprise.
t high-fives Teppy in the most risque way possible
Surprise asshook is nobody's friend.
There's a lesson there. I'm not sure what it is.
...don't get behind in the thread, or we might start talking bout things that scare you? Clearly you should keep abreast of the thread? :) Ahem.