Someone witty said, "Erotic is when you use a feather. Kink is when you use the whole damn chicken."
How's it sit? Pretty cunning, don'tchya think?
Jayne ,'The Message'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Trudy Booth - Jul 09, 2009 11:56:27 am PDT #15946 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
Laura - Jul 09, 2009 11:56:52 am PDT #15947 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
My 88yo mother was just saying a couple days ago she was thinking of getting a corset like her grandmother's because she knows it would help her backaches. She was wondering if her husband would pull the strings tight like she used to for her gram.
Steph L. - Jul 09, 2009 11:57:34 am PDT #15948 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Where is the kink line? By which I mean, when is something considered kink? Is it unique to the individual/partners or is there a compartmentalization of "This is kink. That is just erotic."
You know the joke -- erotic is using a feather; kinky is using the whole chicken? It's basically like that. Or like the "I know it when I see it" definition of porn. Like, asshooks -- generally defined by most people as kinky. Corsets -- not always defined as kinky.
(And apologies if I offend with simplicity or asinine words.)
No (1) offense, (2) simplicity, or (3) asininity, my dear.
brenda m - Jul 09, 2009 11:59:21 am PDT #15949 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
The Boy is still confused by the prevalence of corsets among the Buffistas who are not kinky, because he considers them a Kink 101 garment.
For some of us the kink is a factor. Though by no means all.
Steph L. - Jul 09, 2009 11:59:30 am PDT #15950 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
It's kink if, after you've already consented to sex, it requires extra permission. Like, I wouldn't think twice about going down on someone but I'd probably ask before I smacked them on the ass.
We always talk about it ahead of time, before the sexing even starts.
That way, the asshook is never a surprise.
Trudy Booth - Jul 09, 2009 11:59:48 am PDT #15951 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
t high-fives Teppy in the most risque way possible
Trudy Booth - Jul 09, 2009 12:00:44 pm PDT #15952 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
Surprise asshook is nobody's friend.
meara - Jul 09, 2009 12:01:04 pm PDT #15953 of 30000
There's a lesson there. I'm not sure what it is.
...don't get behind in the thread, or we might start talking bout things that scare you? Clearly you should keep abreast of the thread? :) Ahem.
javachik - Jul 09, 2009 12:01:23 pm PDT #15954 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
java, yes. And I just edited out our specialty in the above post--I'm pretty sure it's just bitchy, not actually HIPAA-violating, but wanted to stay on the safe side.
oh, sorry, I wasn't trying to out anyone or anyplace! I was asking because a friend has his leg amputated yesterday and I am going to go see him...but it will likely be on the weekend.
NoiseDesign - Jul 09, 2009 12:01:44 pm PDT #15955 of 30000
Our wings are not tired
For some of us the kink is a factor.
And this is why I adore brenda.