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'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


JZ - Jul 09, 2009 11:36:01 am PDT #15932 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

AAAAAAH! Omnis, you blackfonted the worst part of the whitefont! My girly bits are now flinching, cringing and attempting to curl themselves up like a pillbug.


NoiseDesign - Jul 09, 2009 11:36:06 am PDT #15933 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

I just have to talk to the guy on the phone. He's the one who's got to see him mostly naked for 40 minutes, which should be ample punishment for caving.)

Clearly this guy needs medicinal application of the asshook.


JZ - Jul 09, 2009 11:37:41 am PDT #15934 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

java, yes. And I just edited out our specialty in the above post--I'm pretty sure it's just bitchy, not actually HIPAA-violating, but wanted to stay on the safe side.

Since "Entitled Assgasket" probably describes, oh, half to 2/3 the entire human race at any given moment.


Steph L. - Jul 09, 2009 11:37:53 am PDT #15935 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Heh. Between that and the corsetry, I am totaly kinkoriffic for 1959!

The Boy is still confused by the prevalence of corsets among the Buffistas who are not kinky, because he considers them a Kink 101 garment.

My explanations always fall short.


Aims - Jul 09, 2009 11:39:19 am PDT #15936 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

They provide better boobage support than do regular bras and also help with the posture.


omnis_audis - Jul 09, 2009 11:41:05 am PDT #15937 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

oops. Sorry JZ.


Aims - Jul 09, 2009 11:41:27 am PDT #15938 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Also - asking Tep a question since she is Kink Representative in these here parts.

Where is the kink line? By which I mean, when is something considered kink? Is it unique to the individual/partners or is there a compartmentalization of "This is kink. That is just erotic."

(And apologies if I offend with simplicity or asinine words.)


Sean K - Jul 09, 2009 11:41:50 am PDT #15939 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

The Boy is still confused by the prevalence of corsets among the Buffistas who are not kinky, because he considers them a Kink 101 garment.

I would think a simple "not everyone thinks the way you do," would suffice. Not in a mean way or anything, but I am a bit surprised that The Boy can't step outside of his own view of the world long enough to see that some people may just see a corset as something pretty to wear.


JZ - Jul 09, 2009 11:43:47 am PDT #15940 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

They provide better boobage support than do regular bras and also help with the posture.

And, if you have any interest at all in historical fashion, you very quickly develop an eye for them--all sorts of period movies and shows and plays start looking either exactly right or just fundamentally wrong. Dresses hang wrong, boobs look wrong under them, in a particular artfully framed shot you can't appreciate the aesthetic beauty of it all because this or that character's silhouette is just suddenly so jarringly modern or sloppy.

I definitely like the way I look in a corset, but there's also a definite history-geek element to the whole thing for me too, and I can think of a few (not a lot, but definitely a few) comparatively non-kinky friends whose fondness for corsets is highly history-geeky.


omnis_audis - Jul 09, 2009 11:44:05 am PDT #15941 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

JZ, I edited back a little spoiler font. If only I could have thought of an example of a search that began with ass, then it would have been better.

So. Um. Clearly my mind is not focusing on work. Does that mean I can leave early? Reading this book on how to run meetings is boring.