Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


P.M. Marc - Jul 02, 2009 12:17:10 pm PDT #15031 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Plei, I want to start using henna. Any suggestions? I've developed an allergy to the chemical dyes, and they're ruining my hair. My hair's naturally v. dark brown with undertones of red, and now about 40% grey. The last dye job was way too dark. I'm thinking of dying it red from now on, so that the gray will become red and the black will stay black. It'll either look cool and strange, or just weird and awful.

Henna will make the grey very coppery. You can probably start switching right away -- I would suggest doing what I did when I switched, which is henna applications once a week or so for three weeks until the color build up blends things in. Keep in mind, the color will continue to deepen for about 3 days after application.


Jessica - Jul 02, 2009 12:58:42 pm PDT #15032 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I mentioned to DH that I was thinking of chopping all my hair off (easier to color, off my neck, etc) and he made his usual noncomittal noise. I finally pressed him into an opinion - he swears up and down that I've *always* known he likes long hair (but doesn't want to tell me what to do with mine). I'm still pretty sure this was the first time he's told me out loud.


sj - Jul 02, 2009 1:05:06 pm PDT #15033 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I love the stripey corset! I wonder how something like that would look over a white dress for the elopement. I keep putting off buying something because I keep thinking I'll lose weight.


JZ - Jul 02, 2009 1:24:19 pm PDT #15034 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

sj, if you've got the right body type to rock a Trashy Diva dress (which you surely do, as you proved on Prom night), IMO you almost certainly have the right body type to rock a corset too, even if you never lose an ounce.


amych - Jul 02, 2009 1:26:14 pm PDT #15035 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

IMO you almost certainly have the right body type to rock a corset too, even if you never lose an ounce.

Yeah, if anything, corsetry means never having to say "I can't choose this unless I lose this bit right here". Plus, as we all know, hawt.


-t - Jul 02, 2009 1:39:29 pm PDT #15036 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I wonder how something like that would look over a white dress for the elopement.

In my head, this looks FANTASTIC!


erin_obscure - Jul 02, 2009 2:45:58 pm PDT #15037 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Shit. Malachi (my younger cat, he of the inappropriate bladder usage) has large amounts of protein in his urine. No bacteria, no blood, no signs of infection. Just protein. Lots of protein. More than last round of pee testing (when he had protein but also a UTI.) It might be nothing, or it might be progression towards renal failure. Should have blood results tomorrow.

eta: i don't know if i'm more worried about him or my own inner compass. Right now, i see two options. 1)He is fine, just a jerk, i put him on antianxiety meds and deal with the constant issues we've been going through since i adopted him last year. 2)He is seriously not at all fine and there is a strong possibility of having to have him put down.

The part that worries me? I don't have a strong preference right now between those two choices. I should obviously want #1, but there is a part of my mind that would relish starting over with a new cat who doesn't enjoy peeing on my bed while i sleep in it. I love him, but he's made my life very very very aggravating lately.


Zenkitty - Jul 02, 2009 2:49:11 pm PDT #15038 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I wonder how something like that would look over a white dress for the elopement.

Uh, hot? Yes. Hot.

Thanks for the advice, Plei, that's good to know. Coppery red should be fine, considering that's the natural haircolor of half my family anyway.


Zenkitty - Jul 02, 2009 2:51:44 pm PDT #15039 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

oh, dear, erin. ~~ma for your kitty.


Polter-Cow - Jul 02, 2009 2:52:00 pm PDT #15040 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Eep, Erin. I hope it's nothing.